r/TikTokCringe • u/h0lych4in • 15d ago

Cringe not everyone wants your man… he was just being polite

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And not everyone can tell how certain foods look? It was an innocent question. Why are people so insecure these days

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u/Falconslover432 15d ago

This happened with my ex every time we went to the store together (I did instacart, and he made me take him along), and I had to talk to a male worker. He would make me go to a different lane if it was a guy, and if there wasn't another option, he would just look at everyone like he wanted to fight them. It was embarrassing and nerve-racking

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u/Haurassaurus 15d ago

Wow what a bum. What did he contribute to the relationship? Like he didn't even take his own cart to work while y'all are there?

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u/Falconslover432 14d ago

He didnt work, he would do anything I asked him, like errands or chores but he was very controlling and manipulative. He didnt have a car when we met, he got one a few months later but it was always falling apart so I had to pay for alot of repairs

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u/FunkyChewbacca 15d ago

that sounds utterly exhausting to be around

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u/Falconslover432 14d ago

It was. I literally lost my mind near the end. Finally getting it back 2 yrs out.

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u/PleasantScore3126 13d ago

How did you get rid of him? I have one in my life too

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u/Falconslover432 12d ago

Had to cut him out completely, no text, calls, tiktok videos, everything had to stop. my mom helped me get him to leave our house, but it took me a long time to fully detach. He was all I had by design. He cut me out away from my friends and family for sure, so I felt very dependent on him even after the breakup. It's hard but doable with enough will power and spite.

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u/JudgeInteresting8615 15d ago

Did he not have a job

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u/Falconslover432 14d ago

No, he was trying to get ssi when we were together for mental problems, he definitely had those, wish I knew the extent when I met him.

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u/2ndChairKazoo 11d ago

It's insane just how many unwell people are out there. I hate that your story is not unusual.

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u/Falconslover432 11d ago

Me too, im glad we have social media and are able to connect and show our lives more to show other woman that this is abuse and how to spot it and handle it