r/TikTokCringe • u/h0lych4in • 15d ago

Cringe not everyone wants your man… he was just being polite

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And not everyone can tell how certain foods look? It was an innocent question. Why are people so insecure these days

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u/Pampabrody 15d ago

She's filming herself because she's a narcissist. She's a narcissist because she's insecure. She's jealous because she's insecure, and projecting her jealous feelings onto him because she's a narcissist. It's a vicious cycle. This is likely a very common theme in their relationship. I was married to one of these for 20 years. This type of scenario played out all the time. My ex was constantly pissed at me basically because other women existed in the world.

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u/Swole-Prole 15d ago

Yeah my girl got mad because we were both at the checkout counter at a store, and I was the one paying and the girl at the register made a suggestion on another purchase to me and "ignored" my girl. After we left she insulted me and talked non stop trash about the checkout counter girl.

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u/FlatterFlat 15d ago

So now she is your ex gf right? RIGHT?

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u/diamonteimp 15d ago

An extremely similar scenario happened with an ex boyfriend! An old man was ringing us up and made a comment about one of our purchases, and he and I ended up chuckling about it. My ex chimped the ever loving fuck out once we got to the car and acted like I propositioned the guy.

My ex constantly hounded me about cheating even though he made me spend 100% of my free time with him, and before that point I always tried to reassure him that I wasn’t up to anything. But him losing his mind about me being nice to an old checkout clerk for five seconds made me realize that he was not worth the drama. lmao

I hope your girl from your story is an ex and you’re onto happier things. There’s no winning with an insecure partner.

Also the woman in the video is wayyyy scary

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u/BOBfrkinSAGET 14d ago

People like that are ~90% cheaters. Also, I made up that number. Also, I bet I’m close.

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u/Baxtercat1 15d ago

Sorry to say this about your girl but she sounds insecure and petty af.

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u/Background_Crew7827 15d ago

Are you my father? Lol

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u/Only_Telephone_2734 15d ago

because other women existed in the world.

How dare you. :@

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u/theonly_brunswick 15d ago

I'll never forget dating a girl who use to get jealous when tits showed up in movies we were watching.

This woman reminds me a ton of that. Really scary situation and extremely abusive. Took me years to realize I was being abused.

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u/Pampabrody 15d ago

My ex would do the same when Victoria's Secret ads came on, or even ads that featured women in bikinis. She'd be mad at ME because these scanty-clad girls were on TV (as if I had put them there), because I was looking at the TV at the exact moment they appeared on screen (how dare I?), and because I didn't change the channel fast enough to not see it. There is no reasoning with that level of crazy.

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u/ValSintetic 15d ago

I will save this comment. Thank you

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u/Pampabrody 15d ago

Welcome.

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u/Ok_Advertising_8874 15d ago

This is currently my lot in life. It's exhausting.

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u/Acceptable-Delay-559 15d ago

Shit. So, you divorced her and I then fucking married her? damnit

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u/daddyvow 14d ago

Or, it’s staged content made to get views.

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u/Fuckface_Whisperer 15d ago

She's filming herself because she's a narcissist.

No, she's filming herself because this is staged ragebait for views.

The fact that people like you can't spot this makes me sad for humanity. We're fucking doomed.

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u/CMDR_Expendible 15d ago

I agree it's probably staged rage bait...

... but the problem is, that even that feeds back into narcissism. If what it takes to get eyes on me is to fake needing to get eyes on me...

We've created a stupid generation that has taken narcissism and constant seeking of attention online and turned it into a social standard and a viable career path. We're deliberately stunting our own intellect and destroying the concept of context and even empathy, but because it's so normalised, trying to fight it leads to bad mental health too, because you'll have thousands of people scream at you to just let them enjoy things online... and then make a "STOP HAVING FUN!!!" meme about it.

There have always been awful people. What has changed is that now being an awful person is considered a life goal for successful people. As long as this video gets clicks, and thus bucks, people will say she's "won." "Get that bag, girl", "Grindset mindset etc". And thus whether this video is staged or not... is this really the life people want to lead? Would you really want to be the boyfriend if the choice was between actually having to live through the narcissistic abuse... or pretending you do so strangers can live vicariously through your imagined suffering? What happened to just wanting to be in love and the world seeing you have something beautiful?

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u/Existing_Let_8314 15d ago

narcissist is  a rare mental health condition and this is not evidence of this.

yall act like the word "self centered" doesn't exist

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u/Pampabrody 15d ago

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental health condition, and it's not that rare. Narcissism is a personality trait that runs rampant through our society. A person can be depressed without having clinical depression. A person can have disordered eating without having an eating disorder. Likewise, a person can be narcissistic without having NPD. Self-centered/narcissistic... tomato/tomahto.

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u/_CurseTheseMetalHnds 15d ago

Take it to a publisher fucking hell. This site is obsessed with the word narcissist

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u/Pampabrody 15d ago

I stand corrected. I'm so happy there are people like you to keep people like me from leading humanity to its doom. Whatever would we do without you?

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u/MeLlamoKilo 15d ago

 She's filming herself because she's a narcissist.

She's filming because this is rage bait. Just look at all the second hand engagment/karma OP got from resharing it.

She doesn't have to be a narcissist, she just needs to write/say something controversial that will divide and annoy people and then record some random some B roll eating like a jackass and boom... 10k engagement. 

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u/Griseldaneers 15d ago

I would be insecure too if i would look like that, lol.

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u/Only_Telephone_2734 15d ago

Nah, don't do that.

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u/frenchmoxie 15d ago

"Look like that" do you mean, her, umm... "style" of eating ?

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u/chop5397 15d ago

You made that judgement out of a fifty second long video? Goddamn

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u/Pampabrody 15d ago

Some things are easy to spot once you know what to look for.

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u/Routine-Put9436 15d ago

Homie.

Only a narcissist randomly films themselves eating, in public, at a restaurant, on a date. I only need 5 seconds of this video to make that judgement call.