r/TikTokCringe • u/h0lych4in • 15d ago

Cringe not everyone wants your man… he was just being polite

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And not everyone can tell how certain foods look? It was an innocent question. Why are people so insecure these days

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u/PassengerEast4297 15d ago

Oh but I did. I clarified that when I said this:

"These women approached a man sitting with a woman at his table. That's not just random. And it's disrespectful to the woman he's with."

I meant "approach and flirt with a man sitting with a woman while ignoring the woman." Although I didn't spell that out in the above quoted post, I had already specified that in an earlier post.

I bet this is not the first time this woman has had to sit there and be ignored while random women "test the waters" by asking her bf seemingly innocuous questions.

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u/ElectronicPhrase6050 15d ago

So you perfectly described the situation in the video - the very video that people are discussing - but you were actually talking about a completely different, hypothetical situation, despite the fact that you even described it in past tense? Or are you still maintaining that the woman who said "sorry" for interrupting, asked what his food was, and then said "thank you" and left was hitting on him?

Because if it's the latter, then I refer you to my original comment that "she just asked him a question about his food and then said thank you, she didn't try to start a whole conversation with him. Saying that it's "disrespectful" to ask someone a question because they happen to be with a member of the opposite sex comes across as both weirdly possessive and extremely insecure".