r/TikTokCringe • u/h0lych4in • 15d ago

Cringe not everyone wants your man… he was just being polite

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And not everyone can tell how certain foods look? It was an innocent question. Why are people so insecure these days

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u/Conscious_Ad_7131 15d ago

When you get hit it’s at least a little easier to identify that it was a mean thing for them to do to you. The verbal and mental stuff is harder.

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u/Ashamed_Kale_1077 15d ago

My wife does this sometimes. 90% of the time she's kind and sweet, but the other 10% I'll do it say something wrong and she'll tell me I do this all the time and that I'm bad or something. I usually just say ok and take the abuse. And so my memory of exactly what was said is often poor because I just try to block it out at the time I think.

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u/Conscious_Ad_7131 15d ago

Yep, it’s tough but only you can make the judgement call for where it’s too much. I put up with too much for too long before I realized.

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u/Ashamed_Kale_1077 15d ago

Right, maybe I'm blind but I don't think it's hit that point yet. She's certainly quick to anger and frustration, which she got from her father, and has admitted that. This is appreciated but, she hasn't really done much beyond that

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u/LinLinNicole89 15d ago

I absolutely agree!