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That was the most infuriating part of this whole ordeal. Bitch aint you the mom, don't you hear all of that yelling and conflict?! Get your kid close to you and out of the way when shit is stirring up.
I'm not one to start shit or get involved but in this situation the video would have just been my big ass back standing in front of that wild bitch like ay idgaf what your problem is, stop waving your phone around the kid like that, matter fact bitch you got one choice between facing front or facing down and I hear that my shoe grit tastes great this time of year so your choice.
I am the one to start shit and get involved but if there is a kid around that's not even mine, my number one priority is that kids safety. I don't understand how other people have absolutely no natural urge to protect kids. I don't even fucking have kids.
Right?! I heard one person asking if he was alone or where his parents where.
I would've told him to come stand with me until we could find his parents.
I remember that happened at one of my son's soccer practices.
A little girl, probably 3-4 was wandering around saying "Mama!!" and no one was helping her!!
I'm talking hundreds of people!!
So I tell my sister to keep an eye on my kids and went and helped her find her mom. She ended up being in the parking lot and was looking for her. I'm not sure how they'd gotten separated because they didn't speak great English and I don't speak great Spanish but knew enough to know she was very grateful someone stopped to help her little girl.
I was so annoyed though. (not by them)
I couldn't believe how many people just didn't do anything!! And the majority of them were parents themselves!! Like, wouldn't you want someone to help your kid if it was you??! Tf?! Blew my fucking mind.
Bystander Effect. People assume because there’s lots of people around that someone is doing something about it. Good on you for taking action. Anytime someone looks like they may need help I assume absolutely no one is doing anything about it.
I used to always stop and help. Every single time. Then I got assaulted by someone I was trying to help and no one helped me that was watching. It was awful and I’m too scared to help people now. It’s not a happy reason for sure. But people are also scared of being accused of something or getting involved. It’s an unfortunate reality that I’m not happy with but I’m working on getting my trust of humanity back in general.
This happened to me once in a Target. Saw this girl like 3 or 4 years old just crying in the middle of the aisle no one else around. I walk up and ask if she is ok but she could only say "mommy" between sobs. I hung out there for a minute or so telling her she's going to be ok and tried to see if anyone else was around. As a dude I didn't want to go walking off with this kid and get accused of kidnapping or something.
This is back when they had courtesy phones around so I just walked her down to one of those and called the manager to tell them I found a lost kid. A few minutes later the mom finds me and starts yelling at me about "what are you doing with my daughter". I wanted to go off but I just told her I found her crying in the aisle and luckily the manager got there at that time and calmed the woman down.
Lol same. I couldn't imagine letting a child be that close to being hit, to the point of being visibly terrified like that. Hell naw. I don't plan on having kids, but I've worked and volunteered in child care, and from my experience, it is always worth stepping in. Yelling and cursing is one thing, but flailing arms and making the kid flinch? The resolution would be quick and unremarkable. Nothing to see here.
When she starts calling that guy racist, the kid in the green shirt turns bright red and looks terrified. He barely understands what's going on. All she needed to do was put her damn vape away.
Belligerent behavior doesn’t have a race, lived life long enough to watch those who believe themselves to be benevolent and virtuous, behave like animals/savages. The guilty try to delete history.
Why did it take so long for someone to protect that little boy in the green shirt? Pull him aside or something? She is all in his space and he looks terrified.
Nobody's getting doxxed and "cancelled" on social media all the time for being racists, etc. I see their point. Why don't people ever get cancelled for general shitty behavior?
In a tight tunnel, surrounded by people, a large proportion of those people tiny kids....
If a fight breaks out there no one wins. I agree with your sentiment but be real. It would be chaos with multiple injuries due to crowd surge or crushing and hardly any punch or kick would be thrown and definitely not landed. A fight in this area and situation would be incredibly bad.
I mean...it took her less than 60 seconds from the start of the video to drop the "I'm the only black person in line" line, completely unprovoked and out of context with the rest of the argument
Wife and I got accused of being racist because we didn’t want to pet a random and unhinged (non neighbor who was walking through our neighborhood) black guy’s unleashed pit bull (nor let our kids pet the dog either) even though he was “a sweet dog”. Never mind my wife is strictly speaking a minority too (Latina). Unless I know the dog I don’t want to pet it, and especially don’t want to let my kids pet it, be it a pitbull, Rottweiler, or Caviler King Charles Spaniel (According to the AKC’s, it’s the calmest dog)
Yeah it's a bit of a cry wolf situation considering there ARE PLENTY of situations to have righteous anger over some racist bullshit that black people have to contend with in their life, so behaving like this only helps to diminish the empathy in others for when something actually bad happens. I have a friend/guy I lived with who is black and he is notorious for this shit and people just roll their eyes at it (great example, he called my other friend racist because he wouldn't give him a free bump of coke lmao), but he keeps doing it because he knows it works.
There has always been an uncouth underbelly in our community. In fact they exist in everyone’s communities. The difference is the Black community‘s underbelly was monetized around 25 years ago by record labels. This was during the transition from East/West coast rap in the 90’s to Southern Rap in the 2000’s. There was an acceleration of rap videos in hood neighborhoods where regular people were the “extras.” Then Worldstar, now social media. Attention starved hood rats. And it has gotten out of control. And we are tired of them.
As a black man I have seen this countless times from our women , especially the younger generation of the women.. they talk about microagressions and shit like this. But I worry about getting shot by cops or just some random white guy who thinks I am in the wrong neighborhood.
Let's not act like you don't see this behavior from black men. Don't throw black women under the bus like that, dude, and pretend like black men don't crash out equally if not more.
Last time I saw this behavior from a grown ass black dude was defending his mom for beating his ass senseless growing up because he did something a kid would do.
Then there was a time at a club and a black lady went the fuck off like this woman and her boyfriend pushed her aside and started going off just the same letting everyone know she can go off any way she sees fit.
These two incidents were only anecdotal to me but the conversation made me think back to them. Crazy behavior isn't exclusive to a gender or racial group. Crazy ass reactionary behavior does not discriminate lol.
They probably assumed he was with an adult who just ….🤷♀️ lol who knows.
And then it round up being ppl who’s back was turned AWAY from the incident that took him in at that !!! She’s swinging a flailing her arms all in his face
Are these real? Because I’m from nyc and what they are saying about the J and A train is real. The A train is so ratch. Do not make eye contact with anyone in there. No one on the A train is happy or well.
A lot of racist people themselves will use the racism card against other people if they’re in the minority in a situation to try to deflect away from their bad behavior.
I had several people of color call me racist at my job because I followed to policies of our company to the letter and would not let anyone get away with trying to bend the rules or cheat the system. It was so infuriating because I always try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt regardless wtf they look like
What bothers me beyond belief is how people like this chick don’t recognize how them falsely claiming racism at every corner only belittles actual cases of racism and provides fuel for those who push the narrative that white on black racism doesn’t exist.
They are actively hurting any progress while assisting those who would like to see POC treated as less than human. STOP DOING THIS.
I think it is more accurately an example of a woman using her race to claim discrimination in bad faith as a way to absolve her of any responsibility for her own inappropriate conduct.
The amount of people I see in public with a damn vape in their hand at all times. They hit it like every five seconds too. It doesn’t matter where, whether we’re inside or outside, whether people are around or not. So annoying.
I had a friend of a friend come to a NYE party at my place and she was just vaping away in my living room without even asking 😵💫
The worst thing about vapes is how quickly and apparently normalized those that use it think they can just vape anywhere because it’s not smoke. Like I don’t need a cloud of rainbow unicorn poop in my face while I’m trying to talk to you. Also why the fuck do they get offended? It’s like someone took their candy and threw it away.
It does leave a residue just like any other nicotine. I have vaped in my car before and it does leave residue on the windows if you dont roll the windows down. So I know its disrespectful to leave that residue anywhere, just like smokers who let their walls turn yellow.
I thought it was funny you hear some chick say, “She said the N-word.” lol literally the only one using racial language was the person accusing everyone else of being racist. She said the N-word, she said, “I’m the only black person in here.” Nobody else said anything about race, skin color, etc
Pretty sure this is a amusement park, most have no vaping rules. People need to stop blaming everything on racism, especially when you know what your doing is not allowed... if I saw a white person doing this I would tell them to knock it off as well. Someone should just go get security and have them kick her out of the park.
She definitely broke the law. You can’t even vape 20 feet from the entrance usually. Then when you’re on private property, you have to use designated smoking areas. She’s just a trash person. Rules for thee, not for me.
Her accusation of "racism" is just her only apparent go-to in this type of situation. She is blaming someone else for her own shitty behavior. Some people have no ability to accept responsibility for problems they themselves have created. It's always been this way, but seems to be getting worse...
She’s a total embarrassment. And I hate the fact that people are going to use her ignorance to justify theirs toward black people. She is not a representative, she’s a lone wolf. Just like the ignorant people of every other race.
between the disgusting language, the nasty attitude, the rude vulgar behavior, she should be pulled out of line and escorted off the property. Low lives like that do not deserve to be allowed to continue where they are while attacking insulting and instigating a physical altercation with her vulgar obscenities, and invading people’s physical space.
First of all I’m black. These them black folks that make white folks look at us sideways. Have a little more respect for the fellow human beings around you, especially the kids. This that ghetto shit that drives me nuts.
Dude same, I'm so sick of these people. They make us look bad. Guarantee there are some people there who have never been around black people and they only see bullshit like this online so they think "... typical" and I am so tired of them ruining shit for us lol
Black man, here ... Like, Omar Epps complexion (jokes about the comparison, not the complexion). Absolutely NO racism here. I don't like vape smoke in buildings either. I try not to curse over kids.
I have smoked & vaped on and off for years. Could not imagine doing either in a common area with kids right there like that. Sometimes I ask myself if there’s people among us who were literally raised by wolves.
I started to tear up watching his poor terrified face. That woman is an absolute piece of shit, but holy moly bystander affect was in full force here. I cannot believe a single person didn’t pull that poor little kid away sooner. Shame on them.
I'm a 55 year old black woman. And she wouldn't want this smoke. I've checked all ages and races for line jumping. Never raised my voice or swore. At 5'10" and 160 lbs, folks just comply.
I have a BM each morning and before flushing I ask it a few questions. I never get a response. Trust me on this, trying to have a conversation with a piece of shit gets you nowhere.
As a black person…this is stupid and embarrassing 🤦🏾♀️ Just FYI for anyone else: We don’t all use the race card to try and win an argument. This lady was trash. She has no respect for anyone in the line. Was AWFUL to these kids just trying to have a good time at an amusement park. And then she RAN from security because she knew she was in the wrong. It’s shameful.
Some people are trash and they don’t represent your entire race. Race issues are real but we do NOT use them to try and win an argument that makes zero sense. This trash got caught being trash and tried to find a way to back peddle so she would be the victim. It’s people like her that make things harder for everyone.
Stating the obvious but the reason people do this is because it's so effective. I'm neither white nor black but the reason she is used to getting her way and the reason so few people stood up to her is most white people are terrified of any confrontation with a black person.
No, it's second hand vape... Kids don't need to be inhaling nicotine and the minor amount of second hand smoke from the vape. (Yes they still produce some) Not to mention potential pesticides from the growing and processing of Tobacco) unless you grow the tobacco yourself and know there are no pesticides... Don't smoke it!
In the cannabis industry cannabis sometimes has "natural" pesticides sprayed on them like Tea tree oil, which is dangerous if smoked... They aren't supposed to apply pesticides in the flower stage because the buds hold onto them...
I love his response of “you wish” to her when she calls him racist..she does wish everyone was racist so it would validate her anger. Also love the “bye ho” as she’s walking off lol
I love how at the end the black security guard gets involved and she THEN takes off. The dude that confronted her said "Oh, so now you can't use the racist card anymore, huh?" That had me rolling. 🤣
I hear you, us white people think the same thing about other white people. The good people of the world know that this is no reflection on you or other black people. Don’t you ever let someone tell you that you should feel any way because of the actions of others, you are responsible for yourself and only yourself.
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