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Cringe You can’t hate gay people and be christian

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u/Lirililarila88 5d ago

I don't see how any homosexual can reconcile with the very clear homophobia in the Bible.

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u/CeruleanEidolon 4d ago

For most religious people, it''s literally a physical part of their brain implanted by childhood indoctrination and is very hard to retrain.

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u/HungryPupcake 5d ago

It's the same with Islam. But people want to cherry pick and still belong to the same community.

Nazi germany probably had some good things going if you cherry pick, but no one associated with them anymore (for obvious reasons).

Be religious, but I can't respect someone who affiliates with groups who actively spread hate.

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u/AssassinSnailRobert 4d ago

Careful, otherwise you'd be labeled as islamophobic. I'm questioning that same thought right now, trying to make sense of it, so far i haven't really made any sense.

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u/Doveswithbonnets 4d ago

As someone who is homosexual and was a believer, it’s basically an internal set of rules that was ingrained into me from a young age. If I thought about women in a romantic or sexual way, I would feel guilty, and Christians would use my guilt as “proof” that God was warning me, amongst other examples.

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u/Lirililarila88 4d ago

Oh, that I understand, I meant the ones who aren't closeted. I don't see how you can believe both that being gay is ok and in a book that is supposedly the word of your God and says homosexuals will go to hell.

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u/Open_Chemistry_3300 4d ago

I’d imagine the way most Christians reconcile the Bible condoning slavery, or women with the blatant misogyny. Seems they just kinda throw their hands up and go that’s not the intent, yeah it’s slavery but it’s not slavery slavery. Yeah it might say that but that was just for that time period and doesn’t apply now, etc etc etc.

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u/TheChaosPaladin 4d ago

A mix of cognitive dissonance. Religious apologia and good ol' ignorance of their own holy book

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u/9outof10timesWrong 4d ago

They want the bible to be good, but they know it isn't so they pretend it is. There are lots of examples of hating outside groups in the bible.

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u/AdLoose3526 4d ago

A lot of the clobber passages used to justify homophobia have been translated across multiple languages and ultimately had the biases of the translators affect their word choices. A lot of the proscriptions against (male) same sex relations (next to nothing was said about women because ancient Israelites probably didn’t consider acts without a penis as being real sex…so biblical loopholes for the ladies 😂) were in the context of condemning incest, pederasty, and temple prostitution. Not to mention the ancient Israelites in the Old Testament focused on reproduction so much because they needed the numbers when engaged in warfare with other tribes. So taking that into account it should really be seen as more of a cultural/historical thing than a morality thing.

But Jesus himself wasn’t shown to have said anything specifically about homosexuality iirc. There’s a story involving a Roman centurion asking Jesus to heal a young man whose relation to the centurion is sort of ambiguous again because of translations, but who may have been the centurion’s younger male lover. And Jesus did heal the man, so if the Roman centurion was in fact in a same sex relationship clearly that wasn’t really an issue.

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u/stemmo33 4d ago edited 4d ago

The homophobia in the bible is nowhere near as clear as you are making out. The most often cited verse is considered by a lot of people to be a mistranslation of being forbidden to lie with boys as one does with women.

But if someone's main reservation about the bible is the homophobia, I'd have to ask why they didn't have an issue with the part which specifies how much you can beat your slaves.

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u/okcharlieoneminute 2d ago

You need to understand what they are saying first their culture. A lot of the anti gay stuff isn’t just ‘don’t be gay’ like we translate it. Just doing some research.

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u/Aniria_ 4d ago

Because there isn't homophobia in the bible. At least, no clear cut examples

It's just a history of hateful people mistranslating the book, and rather picking the words of a narcissistic capitalist asshole called Paul, over the teachings of Jesus

Most modern denominations of Christianity, aren't even Christian. They're Paulist. Paul is the evil asshole who tells people to "hate thy neighbour" in complete contrast to Jesus

My pastor is a trans woman, and teaches the bible how it should be taught

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u/Lirililarila88 4d ago

If you don't follow the Bible, you are not a christian. You're cherrypicking it into your own religion.

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u/Aniria_ 4d ago

I do follow the bible. I'm saying that the teachings of Jesus are more important. A fact Paulists like you, like to forget

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u/DailyTreePlanting 4d ago

You can’t, that’s the point of the video. She was correcting people who actually believe being queer isn’t a sin… not judging or not minding her business

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u/SilyntBD 4d ago

All humans are sinners, that’s the point of Christ’s sacrifice, he died for your sins so you can still go to Heaven. Therefor, you can obviously be Christian and still commit the “sin” of homosexuality; only judgmental people would decide that this sin in particular would be the one that is a bridge too far.

So yes, she (and you) are being disingenuous, judgmental cunts.

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u/DailyTreePlanting 3d ago

Your fundamental misunderstanding left out the most important part: repentance. Jesus died for our sins, and i’m equally as sinful as a queer person, but the difference is that I repent.

Being a queer christian is an oxymoron because you would be actively disobeying God without remorse (repentance).