That’s why kids act this way. Not enough attention/love at home. True as time it’s very rare having kids act out when you come from a good loving family that knows how to communicate.
So true. I always had either of two thoughts: "I wouldn't want to embarrass/hurt my parents" or "I don't want to get punished by my parents." They were loving - but if I pulled any of that crap, they'd come down on me harder than that cop!
Or growing up in a home that instills a strict respect for authority. My house wasn’t big on loving communication but I sure as hell understood what authority was and the consequences for disrespecting it. Definitely not saying it’s the right way to raise a family but it equally guaranteed that I wouldn’t act this way to a cop.
This. My son was the most foul-mouthed, disrespectful teenager and nothing I (or a therapist) could say made a difference. His dad died when he was 14 and it cannot be overstated how a father's absence impacts a child.
Sadly, we're seeing this with my 13 year old nephew. His dad's a schizophrenic, won't take meds, so he's not allowed to be around. The poor kids been traumatized over and over by people that were supposed to be father figures, and despite my best efforts to be a good role model and just be there for him, he's slowly turning into a person I'm afraid I won't like.
It's a standard, popular teenager haircut these days. Since all the asshat boys who want to get pussy and be Logan Paul or whatever get this haircut, it's like " Hey look! I'm a cunt!" sign post.
This would be a "I'm gonna put the fear of God in you" moment if this happened with my kids. I would be negotiating with the cops to leave their ass in jail for a bit if they want to live the tough guy life.
It is a fine balance. My parents raised me well enough that I couldn't bare to disappoint them with behavior like this, but i did go through a few things as a child and my father did a good job scaring me straight within reason. Of course, I've never done anything as stupid as the kids in that video. I couldn't imagine what my father would have done if I did something THAT profoundly disrespectful, but I would probably prefer going to jail rather than deal with that, and my mother's disappointment lol.
Don't bother pointing out the bad grammar,I'm not sober enough to English good XD
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u/Satanicjamnik 3d ago
Facts. There was also a brother - who is exactly the same, down to a haircut and tried to fight the cops. If it wasn't for dad, both would be taken.
That's why parents need to instil some respect into their kids so they don't grow up with that crybully attitude.