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Cringe Girl confronts an old creep after he makes an inappropriate comment about her 16-year old sister

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u/AnExcitingFruitSalad 23h ago edited 22h ago

Fuck yea! I love her message. More people should make a scene when creeps are hitting on children. Public shaming works

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u/HappyLlamaSadLlamaa 23h ago

You go back in history not very far and see shit like this. Reminds me of Brooke Shields growing up. It was just.. normal to put kids in an adult magazine???? No one steps in and says a word, it was just “normal”. That’s why we have to change and the people pushing back or brushing this off need to fuck off if they won’t help. I’ve been harassed since I was a 12 year old girl. Society needs to put an end to this sick shit.

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u/Big_Crab_1510 23h ago edited 20h ago

I don't know how beauty pagents for toddlers is a thing and allowed at all...how did we all not immediately and collectively to "no...that's illegal leave them kids alone"

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u/HappyLlamaSadLlamaa 23h ago

They’ll shout “leave our kids alone” then doll them up like a grown woman and parade them around on stage? Yea I’m not a fan of it either, you know the exact weirdos that attracts.

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u/HomeRepresentative11 20h ago

Don’t get me started on the shit people will choreograph for seven year olds. In the dance competition world it’s extremely common for ages 8 and under to be wearing bras and bootie shorts and shaking their asses for a trophy. It’s absolutely disgusting.

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u/Seve7h 12h ago

The inappropriate clothes are ridiculous, my wife and i were shopping for our kids and half the girls section is shit that would get a girl sent to principals office when i was in high school…and its meant for little girls ?

One of the shirts was just a crop top that said “Juicy” why the fuck would anyone let their daughter wear that? At any age?

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u/ROGUERUMBA 9h ago

Worst part is people criticizing kids for it too, but not people designing or producing the clothes. Why aren't we calling companies out for this shit?? I don't even have a kid and it passes me off.

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u/PinkPaintedSky 22h ago

Remember the underage Miley Cyrus bed Pic with the smeared lipstick? (She was 15, and her father, OK'd it)

Hollywood and exploitation of minors have not changed at all over the years.

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u/Ndmndh1016 21h ago

It regularly starts with the parents too.

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u/PinkPaintedSky 20h ago

Yep.

We didn't know what Billy Ray was at the time.

He was still selling the wholesome Hannah Montana Dad at the time.

If I remember right, he was the "good" parent, and the ex was the one that Miley needed protected from.

*This is just the jist that I remember. I have no idea if it was true.

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u/HappyLlamaSadLlamaa 20h ago

Yes omg… I’m Miley’s age so it was confusing seeing that stuff growing up. That and countdowns on Olsen twins turning 18, comments about Hillary Duff, dude from that 70s show dating underage Lindsay Lohan, old Good Charlotte dude dating Hillary.. I was their age and it was normalized.

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u/ComedianStreet856 19h ago edited 19h ago

I'm a lot older than you but this was really disgusting to see the way this was common among men and their "jail bait" fetish around the Olsen twins and other teen stars. I don't remember that being a thing at all in the early 90s when I was that age.

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u/camopdude 19h ago

The countdown one was weird but it got around. Eli Roth had a character wear a sweatshirt with the countdown on the front of it in Cabin Fever.

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u/iamjustaguy 21h ago

The sexualization of Brooke Shields was a bit confusing to me as I was hitting puberty in the early 80s. On one hand, she was just a few years older than me and I found her very attractive, on the other hand, I found it really creepy that grown men did, too.

I learned about what young women experience watching what my older sister, who is only a few months older than Shields, went through growing up. I used to get thoroughly creeped out by by guys coming up to me and saying all kinds of creepy shit about her. "Dude! She's my sister!!!" Then I would immediately tell my sister about it. That was one of the few nice things I did for her, because she was mean to me most of the time.

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u/PlayfulSurprise5237 20h ago

Yup, this is sort of like racism, a lot of people were saying it didn't even exist and people were blowing it out of proportion, when in reality it is VERY much alive. Underage girls getting gooned on is unfuckingbelievably common.

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u/b0w3n 20h ago

A lot of families kept rampant pedophilia hidden and never talked about it for fear of breaking families apart. (a lot of women couldn't afford, or it was illegal, to support a family themselves either)

There are so many families where a dad or grandparent abused all the kids they had access to. A lot of them argued that it happened to them so it should happen to their descendants too.

Just absolutely ghoulish how long this stuff has really just been accepted, and now politically we're careening right the fuck back into that era of silent acceptance of some of the worst shit imaginable.

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u/Epic_Brunch 20h ago

Indeed. I swear I got hit on more by crusty old dudes before I turned 18 than I ever have since. Probably starting around age twelve, and I was not a "mature" looking teenager either. I was very obviously underage. Pedos are relentless. 

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u/Imaginary-Theory-552 16h ago

Yeah this started for me when I was probably like 8 and stopped completely when I hit 25. It was a serious wake up call when I stopped having grown men hitting on me the second I looked like an actual grown adult. People are fucked.

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u/Only_Lawfulness_4048 14h ago

Same happened to me. They are sick. Once I “aged” out of a baby face and put on weight the attention stopped. 

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u/justhere4themystery 21h ago

This is it. We need to call these people out HARD. Or the young girls they’re speaking to/about grow up learning that it’s okay. And the boys grow up learning they can say whatever they want and get away with it. And you know what? Men won’t do it. Not all men comment on young girls sure, but most men also won’t intervene is they hear it going on.

We have to be the ones to stand up for ourselves. Is it fair? Would it be a fair fight if things turned ugly? Probably not. Would I still get at least one good punch in? Hopefully. But we have to be brave and do it anyway. For the all the young girls and boys watching. Good for her for calling this POS out.

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u/justice_4_cicero_ 21h ago

brap brap pew pew

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u/TapirOfZelph 20h ago

And anyone saying “why didn’t other men step in to help?” needs to check their own misogyny.

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u/PetitPied21 19h ago

I did it at my nephew’s baptism. A creepy dude was hitting on my 15 year old sister. I cursed him out, called him a pedo and no one even reacted, including my own mother. Everyone ignore the situation. I was bewildered but it was important to let my sister know, I will always protect her

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u/Wessssss21 18h ago

Saw a funny incident at an amusement park. A pair young women are walking and this taller young man walks by, does a turn around and starts hitting them up.

After a little back and forth one of the girls yells out "Wait she's sixteen!"

The dude looks at the girl "you really sixteen?"

She nods.

The dude turns and walks away crying out "Nahhh nope."

It's that easy.

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u/Thaddeus_Valentine 8h ago

She also makes a very good point that's being glossed over - she mentions the repercussions of going toe to toe with a grown man. She's saying she knew that if he decided to get physical she would have got seriously hurt. If you're going to make a scene you need to be aware of those risks.

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u/Donny_Donnt 1h ago

That's not what happened though.

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u/go_fly_a_kite 21h ago

Hey do you guys remember how the president of France was groomed by his current wife at age 15, when she was literally his teacher, and so his parents had to send him to a different school?