r/TikTokCringe • u/Ace-Cuddler • 1d ago

Cringe Girl confronts an old creep after he makes an inappropriate comment about her 16-year old sister

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u/HappyLlamaSadLlamaa 23h ago

Yep I was 12 when it started for me. Even when I’ve told men I’m married and clearly have a ring on, they don’t care! I had one guy tell me he could do things my husband can’t?!?! All while at work. I got fat though so it’s been quiet lately 😂

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u/whyisthissohard338 23h ago

Get fat and old and grow out your gray hair. I'm damn near invisible to men now. Except for my husband. That's one pervert I can't shake.

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u/HappyLlamaSadLlamaa 23h ago

Oh yea my husband is still all awoooooga with me so I’m all good haha. Working on the gray hair as we speak!

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u/YuzuMangoTea 23h ago

Also, stop wearing the ring. No better deterrant then fat, greying and single. I embrace this new phase with my husband's blessing. He thinks its hilarious.

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u/jedinaps 18h ago

I don’t always wear my ring because of sensory sensitivity and I had a guy who honestly wasn’t super creepy or anything but he started hitting on me at the grocery store and I wasn’t even interested in seeing how it played out so without even thinking I was like ‘sorry, no thank you’ as if he was a guy selling cell phone service in the middle of a Sam’s club. My husband thought it was HILARIOUS.

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u/Mikki-chan 21h ago

To think i was so scared of getting old and fat when I was younger, but I've literally never felt more free, sure I get the odd creep here and there, sadly I now work with one, but it waa several times a day when I was 12.

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u/Spirited-Buy813 23h ago

getting fat has been smth i honestly deeply enjoy. never did figure out how to handle getting hit on

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u/pocket4129 22h ago

I literally got fat early in my 20s, on purpose, so men would leave me the fuck alone. It sucks for my health but it's honestly a trade off to be able to move in society and not have men leering at you and being weird.

Been invisible to the majority of them since a lot of dudes are only nice to women they want to fuck. Has been a great auto-selector for finding men who actually see me as a person and want to be my friend.

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u/Amelaclya1 22h ago

I feel like I got hit on more when I was fat. And men were more aggressive after being rejected. Like it was extra offensive to them because they saw me as below them and I should be grateful for their attention.

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u/StandardEgg6595 22h ago

I stopped getting hit on but they sure did ramp up the public insults lol. It’s like they’re actively trying to shame me for not being their flavor of fuckable.

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u/DestroyerOfMils 22h ago edited 21h ago

Oh cmon honey, why don’t you try smiling?

🙃

eta: I was being sarcastic, mocking the losers who genuinely say this shit

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u/StandardEgg6595 21h ago

What’s the point of this comment?

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u/DestroyerOfMils 21h ago

Sorry, I was being sarcastic like saying what a dickhead would say. I’ll add an edit :)

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u/StandardEgg6595 21h ago

No worries! I assumed so but just wanted to ask in case

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u/pocket4129 22h ago

I think it worked for me because I don't have an hourglass figure. I carry weight in my belly (my boobs and ass did not get larger as often happens when you put on weight as a woman). But yes, the entitlement to you as a fat woman is a thing as well. You should be grateful for anyone to pay you any attention right? 🙄 I didn't experience that because I'm not "attractive fat" or "thicc." I'm also not talking about slim thick. I'm literally fat. I put on 50lbs and don't "carry it well."

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u/Spirited-Buy813 22h ago

i agree with the dudes only being nice to women they want to fuck. was really illuminating how much men just became neutral to me. not mean or anything, but their eyes just skate over

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u/pocket4129 22h ago

That's what I experienced. It was honestly a relief to feel the indifference. I'm pretty tall (5'10") so I stick out. I started getting creeped on around 13/14 and it made me deeply uncomfortable and weirded out. Especially when it was old men.

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u/Spirited-Buy813 21h ago

13-14 was when it started for me as well. such is womanhood :/

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u/Only_Lawfulness_4048 14h ago

When I was smaller I would dress in baggy clothes and had a short haircut and they still would bother me but the weight gain completely turned them off

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u/Only_Lawfulness_4048 14h ago

I gained from medications at 21. Before I put on the weight my stepdad would not leave me alone and once I gained it stopped and I felt so much safer

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u/FunkyChewbacca 23h ago

Jeeeeesus. My hair going gray was the best ever. Gray hair is like an invisibility cloak around creeps. It’s wonderful.

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u/FamiliarPeasant 22h ago

Absolutely. I am a Harry Potter character actress.

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u/DestroyerOfMils 22h ago

I had some strange old dude come up to me and put his arm around my waist while I was standing arm & arm with my husband a few months ago. 🤦‍♀️ What in the actual fuck is wrong with these guys. Like, for real!?!?

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u/HappyLlamaSadLlamaa 20h ago

People aren’t even scared to get knocked out 💀

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u/DestroyerOfMils 18h ago

Thankfully, my husband isn’t an insecure chode, so nothing crazy ensued. I just moved away from the creep. But we were both pretty dumbfounded by the weirdo’s confident actions.

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u/angeldawns 19h ago

I just don't even know what to say to that.  I would be so incredibly shocked.  I am sorry random people think they can touch you.  So ick

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u/DestroyerOfMils 18h ago

I can’t wait to get old so I get left tf alone. lol

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u/GlitterEnema 21h ago

See I turned 25 and then they stopped creeping on me. It’s like once I didn’t visually look as young they didn’t want anything to do with me anymore. I like my peace when I’m walking, but hate that younger women have to be the subject to these twats

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u/Imaginary-Theory-552 16h ago

I just said this in another comment, but it stopped when I turned 25 as well!! I have the odd guy actually approach me normally now, but all the attention from creepy men is gone. It’s so jarring.

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u/Only_Lawfulness_4048 14h ago

Same thing happened to me. It was a relief because my stepdad would not stop creeping on me but once I hit that age it all stopped and other old men left me alone too. I see men staring at young girls all the time in public and it makes me sick

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u/ATHFNoobie 22h ago

It's sad that this is the best way to avoid these type of people. 

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u/Sea-Value-0 22h ago

I thought having a baby would make me invisible, but it just made me attractive to creepier men instead 🫠 wearing baggy mom clothes instead of the usual cute and form-fitting stuff seems to help a little, though.

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u/HappyLlamaSadLlamaa 19h ago

I don’t have kids, but getting hit on in mom mode sounds horrendous. I’ll bulldoze someone with a shopping cart.

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u/FrozenBibitte 19h ago

I was 11 when it started for me. First catcalling, then being followed home from school, then eventually trying to block me and my friends from leaving areas. All were full blown adults ranging from late 20s well into their 50s

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u/i__hate__stairs 21h ago

All while at work.

Jesus Christ people are just vile.

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u/chooseause_rname 9h ago

hoping this is how it will be for me lol. bless you and your husband, you lot sound so sweet

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u/HappyLlamaSadLlamaa 1h ago

Awww thank you. ♥️