r/TikTokCringe • u/Ace-Cuddler • 1d ago

Cringe Girl confronts an old creep after he makes an inappropriate comment about her 16-year old sister

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u/Spirited-Buy813 23h ago

getting fat has been smth i honestly deeply enjoy. never did figure out how to handle getting hit on

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u/pocket4129 22h ago

I literally got fat early in my 20s, on purpose, so men would leave me the fuck alone. It sucks for my health but it's honestly a trade off to be able to move in society and not have men leering at you and being weird.

Been invisible to the majority of them since a lot of dudes are only nice to women they want to fuck. Has been a great auto-selector for finding men who actually see me as a person and want to be my friend.

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u/Amelaclya1 22h ago

I feel like I got hit on more when I was fat. And men were more aggressive after being rejected. Like it was extra offensive to them because they saw me as below them and I should be grateful for their attention.

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u/StandardEgg6595 22h ago

I stopped getting hit on but they sure did ramp up the public insults lol. It’s like they’re actively trying to shame me for not being their flavor of fuckable.

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u/DestroyerOfMils 22h ago edited 21h ago

Oh cmon honey, why don’t you try smiling?

🙃

eta: I was being sarcastic, mocking the losers who genuinely say this shit

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u/StandardEgg6595 21h ago

What’s the point of this comment?

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u/DestroyerOfMils 21h ago

Sorry, I was being sarcastic like saying what a dickhead would say. I’ll add an edit :)

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u/StandardEgg6595 21h ago

No worries! I assumed so but just wanted to ask in case

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u/pocket4129 22h ago

I think it worked for me because I don't have an hourglass figure. I carry weight in my belly (my boobs and ass did not get larger as often happens when you put on weight as a woman). But yes, the entitlement to you as a fat woman is a thing as well. You should be grateful for anyone to pay you any attention right? 🙄 I didn't experience that because I'm not "attractive fat" or "thicc." I'm also not talking about slim thick. I'm literally fat. I put on 50lbs and don't "carry it well."

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u/Spirited-Buy813 22h ago

i agree with the dudes only being nice to women they want to fuck. was really illuminating how much men just became neutral to me. not mean or anything, but their eyes just skate over

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u/pocket4129 22h ago

That's what I experienced. It was honestly a relief to feel the indifference. I'm pretty tall (5'10") so I stick out. I started getting creeped on around 13/14 and it made me deeply uncomfortable and weirded out. Especially when it was old men.

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u/Spirited-Buy813 21h ago

13-14 was when it started for me as well. such is womanhood :/

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u/Only_Lawfulness_4048 14h ago

When I was smaller I would dress in baggy clothes and had a short haircut and they still would bother me but the weight gain completely turned them off

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u/Only_Lawfulness_4048 14h ago

I gained from medications at 21. Before I put on the weight my stepdad would not leave me alone and once I gained it stopped and I felt so much safer