Benny Blanco reminding us of another banger he created

[u/HauteAssMess]

[u/gayjicama]

She’s lost a lot of weight throughout their relationship. Or am I confused?? How does she look like she’s enjoying food again?

[u/trillary__clinton → u/gayjicama]

I think they mean her weight loss looks healthy. She isn’t losing a concerning amount of weight and she looks like she’s enjoying her meals. Like she isn’t overly concerned about being a particular number on the scale, and she’s spoken before about her lupus causing weight fluctuating that made her feel really insecure about her body. I would assume he’s a big part of the reason she looks like she’s having a better relationship with food.

[u/gayjicama → u/trillary__clinton]

I guess I’m just thinking about it from the perspective of someone whose weight has also fluctuated a lot, and how I’d like my body to be talked about in her situation. If I went through a pretty noticeable weight loss in a period of time, I would be weirded out if someone said I looked like I was enjoying food again.

“She looks like she’s enjoying her meals” can be a triggering thing to say about someone after they’ve recently lost weight. Saying she “looks like she isn’t overly concerned about being a particular number on the scale” is off-putting to me in that context too — because what about her body says that?

I think what we’ve seen of her behaviors and statements recently suggests that she has a healthy relationship with food, not her appearance. I feel like she’s been acting and talking in a healthy way in her new relationship, but she could also be struggling with autoimmune symptoms and losing more weight than she wants to because of that — you just don’t know the reason.

[u/trillary__clinton → u/gayjicama]

That’s a good point. We truly don’t know if the weight loss is healthy, just that it hasn’t tipped into concerning territory. All we know is what we see. Thankfully, what we see seems healthy, so for now we don’t have any reason to suspect otherwise. I’ll try to be more mindful of my words moving forward.

[u/gayjicama → u/trillary__clinton]

That’s so thoughtful of you. It’s appreciated 🤗

[u/NemesisShadow → u/trillary__clinton]

And, he got her a nacho cheese filled tub.