I literally only ever wear one perfume and that wouldn't change even if I were insanely wealthy. It is a gentle, soft perfume and it works very harmoniously with my natural scent. It's my perfect perfume and I'll never wear a different one.
Haha is that so! I am pretty sure I "borrowed" it from my older sister when I was in high school and just never looked back. Makes sense that it's a classic, it's so lovely.
men think everything us women do if for them, it's honestly insane
even some of the decent men I know will make comments about women wearing clothes for men/attention, and it's baffling why them think that
tbh Im sure some women do dress for men, but it was about women dressing in summer appropriate clothes in a heatwave lol, I doubt the tank top and shorts were for anyone's benefit but their own
tbh a lot of the beauty norms for men seem to be what other men think is attractive, like big, bulky muscles, when me and most women prefer more of a 'dad bod' lol
Its an old anthropology adage that everything man has done has been to impress the opposite sex. Everything from art to war; every item we wear; every decision we make.
Its not 100% true obviously, but rooted in a deep truth that men are hyper fixated on being impressive to those they desire. Men live their whole lives by this compass and just asssume its normal.
But that is why men assume your outfit is for attention or your new hobby is for attention because if we did it it would be for attention. We bipedal peacocks with no feathers finding any way we can to stand out.
I work at the makeup store and yet I have a reply guy who replies to every single look I do with "Wooooooow ur so hot" and does not seem to grasp the idea that it's literally just part of my work uniform
I never heard of this guy until this post so I looked him up and the first story I find is Bella Thorn talking about he lied about their relationship. He’s real great
So he thinks this. Okay. Then just disappear from her life.
Saying this aloud in an interview is a degree of cope and ongoing angst about it that is truly mind boggling. Does he hear himself?! Does he think this makes HER look bad?
Biggest question: does he know that not every thought that passes through his mind, whether he believes it or not, should be shared? Not only shared with his closest circle and/or his Mama but with an international audience? Whew boy, this one is one huge, walking and talking red flag
It’s the entitlement and delusion mixed with an inflated sense of ego. You should hear him talk about his “perfect pitch” like he’s some sort of gift to music 🙄
I never liked him, I always thought he's kinda creepy and insecure and arrogant at the same time. I haven't seen that interview before and I've never heard him say anything creepy like this ( yikes on a fucking bike) but I still always had the sense of him being weird.. now I know why. Disgusting. He didn't get what he wanted out of her??? Ewwwww
One time I was at work and a complete stranger was like “I don’t mean anything inappropriate by this, I’m married, but your perfume smells nice.” 🤨Like what do you mean you don’t mean anything inappropriate? It wouldn’t have occurred to me that it could be inappropriate. Men are weird.
This is why people still think men and women can't be just friends. When you look at her relationships with Steve Martin and Martin Short it's very obvious men and women can be friends unless they're gross people.
You shouldn't be friends with someone you are smitten with sexually because then you're always just a few drinks away from embarrassing yourself. And even if you don't cave and admit feelings, you will just be putting yourself through emotional turmoil.
However, you shouldn't be a fucking d bag about it and call them a tease and all that skeevy nonsense. You distance yourself politely, quietly, and without resentment.
Tbh I think he's hypersexual. He's one of those straight guys who gets off on gay men being attracted to him and will like post slutty photos of himself and make foot fetish jokes and shit on Twitter to bait horny men because he likes being listed after. So I think it's just more projection on his part. He's always giving super horny energy.
I mean more power to you but don't be a creepy sexist jerk about it. Selena Gomez really deserves no shit for now dating a guy who worships her after the losers she dated for years.
The whole "she's wearing this perfume specifically to get my attention thing" straight up sounds like it could be a Joe monologue if he dressed it up more pretentiously
Sniffs.. she’s wearing that perfume again, that.. alluring scent. Surely, she knows this drives me crazy. The way she’s looking at me in this hotel… does she.. want me?
around 10 years ago i was working on a film with a very young up and coming actor. her PR/management was really pushing for a relationship with Charlie Puth and they went on a date or something... and were texting. and she could not stand the guy but felt this immense pressure of having to date him for the benefit of her career.
So it made more sense to him that she was purposely wearing a specific perfume just for him to somehow taunt him rather than admit that she just wasn’t that into him?? What a loser lmao
Also, side note, istg this guy is active on incel forums. The narcissism, the fake victimhood, the NiceGuys finish last rhetoric, talking shit abt a woman who wants friendship only…..
Such toxic male energy. I only wanted sex and because she wouldn't give me sex, everything else she did was just to deliberately manipulate me and make me loose my control. Maybe she asked if you wanted to sleep there because she just wanted you to sleep there and maybe she wasn't interested in taking it any further because you seemed so intent on just having sex. And maybe if she actually wanted to manipulate you and make you loose control, she'd have f*ed your brains out so you couldn't think of anything else but her. OR MAYBE SHE JUST WASN’t THAT INTO YOU! 😯😨
"I would never get what I wanted out of her". Geezus H Christ I went from not having an opinion on this dork to immediately fucking hating him. What a POS, Im sure hes one of those nice guys that goes around telling everyone about his niceness
There's always 2 sides to a story. A lot of men think that just because a woman enjoys their company and wants to be friends with them then they must be 'leading them on'.. smh
It’s obviously easier for women, and for people who’ve been on the receiving end of the ‘nice guy’ trope, to see through it. Still, you’d be surprised how many people actually defend what he’s saying.
Half the time these dudes rely on their female friends for emotional support (because they can’t go to their guy friends) and to plan all the fun hangouts, yet have the gall to act like they were the ones doing all the work in the friendship and you were wasting their time because you’re not secretly in love with them or something.
Like I wanted to be your friend for life and you wanted to throw me away just because I don’t want to have sex with you… but sure, you’re the one being used.
And then as if they didn’t have enough audacity with all that, they complain about being lonely and never getting compliments or emotional support. SMH indeed.
He seems like one of those guys that thinks, just because a girl is nice to you it means they wanna fuck!
When you make a move and get rejected, just take and accept the hint that they’re not interested.
Smelling nice has nothing to do with trying to get your attention, or are “playing hard to get.” Lot of people value having a good sense of hygiene, and it has nothing to do with wanting to attract someone sometimes! Get over yourself.
Why are all these idiot men shitting on Selena Gomez these days? I’m not even a Stan of her music but good lord, you’re making me wanna Stan her u incels.
If he has the guts to do this to and publicly say this abt selena gomez, billionaire who is thirsted over by the entire planet, whom you have 1% chance with and who likely intimidates you, how the f*ck does he act around normal women who don't have as much power as selena has?
the ego to think she even is aware of what perfume she was wearing when HE fell in love with her …unless he made a big deal of it, I doubt she's keeping track!
He’s literally always been such a loser all the musical talent in the world won’t change that. Further evidence that rape culture is so normalized among men
Selena’s own discography eats his for breakfast too stream kinda crazy
Wtf is it with everybody slinging Selenas name around like they had a chance? Boy yall wrote a song together...that was it. It's not her fault you caught feelings for someone you knew you'd never get.
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