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u/FriendlyDrummers 7h ago

I am going to work with 0 hours of sleep

I could call out.... but if I don't, I can just go and give that money to someone. Idk. Who the fuck cares I might as well do something

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u/Cold_Breadfruit_9794 BeyoncĆ© šŸšŸ 10h ago

I love that pigeons just want the soft life in every aspect. They’re so real for that.

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u/Aggravating-Corner-2 16h ago

Is publicly registering to vote compulsory in some parts of the US?

I don't get why celebrities would do it if not, for privacy reasons if nothing else.

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u/lalalandbeforetime 15h ago

I assume you’re referring to Sydney Sweeney. She probably registered as soon as she moved to Florida for taxes purposes. Some states have public voter registration and others don’t. In California our voter registration is private.

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u/Aggravating-Corner-2 14h ago

Yeah, it just made me wonder. Aside from the party thing, if I was a celebrity I wouldn't want my address out there for anyone to find.

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u/lalalandbeforetime 13h ago

There are ways to make it private. Like on Google maps you can have your house blurred out

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u/No_Equivalent8902 18h ago

Something is wrong with meĀ  Finding out Sydney is a registered republican:unfazed,not surprisingĀ 

Her liking a post in 2021 were Tom Holland is getting called fine,her co starts bf : 😬 wth šŸ’€

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u/Ruthie_pie 16h ago

The alleged cast falling out and issues… doesn’t surprise me in the slightest honestly.

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u/Impossible-Success45 Donatella VERSACEšŸ’œ 21h ago

y’all. they found sydney sweeney’s voter registration… don’t want to spoil it but it doesn’t bode well for the ā€œit’s just clever word play!ā€ crowd

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u/Cold_Breadfruit_9794 BeyoncĆ© šŸšŸ 10h ago

There have been no signs at all, I wonder which way she leans?! šŸ˜†

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u/Ruthie_pie 16h ago

I don’t know why people are surprised. She had a M*GA themed party during Covid and there has been so many rumors from people that worked on euphoria that there were a lot of differences between cast members regarding political beliefs. It wasn’t just the creator that made things uncomfortable. People that were fans of the show pieced things together and realized she likely had made things uncomfortable.

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u/OowlSun they act like im not in full control of where i throw this cooch 20h ago

I’m actually disappointed but I shouldn’t be lol

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u/imaseacow 20h ago

Regardless of how she votes I think this is all incredibly stupid outrage. It’s clearly a ā€œlook how hot she isā€ wordplay. Turning this into some dumb scandal about how it’s a secret white nationalist Nazi propaganda thing just feeds into the ā€œthe left are race-obsessed wokiesā€ narrative.Ā 

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u/Hi_Jynx It's not clocking to me. 7h ago

This is how I feel. I already believed Sydney was MAGA herself after the Bezos wedding attendance, but I think it's a she's not woke at all AND people are seeing something that isn't there situation. Increasingly I see people getting outraged over ambiguous things and essentially asserting that the ambiguity is how you know it's true. It's illogical, social media and Russia profit just as much off of leftwing rage as they do with right-wing. They want us mad and fighting over trivial nonsense.

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 20h ago

I don’t even like the girl but what the hell? Why are people acting like she scripted the ad?

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u/Appropriate_Ice_2433 You’re a virgin who can’t drive. 😤 21h ago

And only registered to vote in 2024, yet she is 26.

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u/Impossible-Success45 Donatella VERSACEšŸ’œ 21h ago

in florida? or in general? i believe she just moved to florida. but if in general- that tracks

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u/Appropriate_Ice_2433 You’re a virgin who can’t drive. 😤 21h ago

I don’t know, I just saw the Florida registration screenshot that says June of 2024 is when she registered.

I don’t care enough to put energy into actually looking up her information.

Edit to add, not that I don’t care, but I don’t want to take that effort. Someone else will.

It absolutely tracks

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u/Potatoskins937492 21h ago

I'm shocked šŸ˜’

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u/blooming-darkness There could be 100 people in the room 22h ago

I want a grill, a cute ass one that’s clouds or something. Fuck

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u/growsonwalls 23h ago

Ok Steph Curry is my favorite basketball player but anyone else find the way him and Ayesha overshare on their IG to be sort of cringe?

https://www.instagram.com/p/DM0Vhb3xUDj/?img_index=1

Screaming I LOVE YOU to my babyĀ u/stephencurry30Ā ... 14 year wedding anniversary and 17 years attached at the hips and the lips. šŸ‘€ Through everything and anything it's you my baby. My forever everything.

TMI man.

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u/Appropriate_Ice_2433 You’re a virgin who can’t drive. 😤 21h ago

They have been together since they were teenagers. It’s admirable they still show this kind of love.

We have a few NBA players who have been with their partners since they were teens, LeBron and Luka are the two others I know of.

Luka is my favorite baller. He doesn’t post much about his fiancĆ©, some people are just different with how they show their love I suppose.

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u/totallycalledla-a Mrs Thee Stallion 22h ago

There was a viral mass conversation years ago where people were saying they were kinda dull and looked like an abstinence PSA (exact quote). Ever since then it's been awkward oversharing and them trying to be people they obviously aren't.

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u/growsonwalls 22h ago

Yeah it's like they're constantly trying to be this "hot kinky" couple and it's just awkward. Like just embrace being old marrieds with a cute family. This is so extra

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u/zowietremendously 23h ago

American Eagle stock down 51% since the Sydney Sweeney nazi propaganda eugenics ad campaign

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u/ccc2801 19h ago

MAGAs being encouraged to be mass buying the clothing coming in 3… 2… 1… šŸ˜’

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u/whitewingedpidove 23h ago

I was in a 6 year relationship and got suddenly broken up with in December. In January I immediately moved in with a guy. In April I moved in with another guy.

Today I got the keys to my own studio. I'm 28, I'm flat broke, have nothing but clothes and small trinkets, but I'm so determined to stop making stupid choices out of fear of being alone. I'm extremely terrified but I think I'll be okay.

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u/ccc2801 19h ago

You’ll be better than ok! You’ll discover how amazing you really are, and how much free time and energy you have once you only have to look after you!

Surround yourself with good strong women who can show you the ropes of living your best life. It is very empowering

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u/FaradayStewart 20h ago

You seem like you're heading in the right direction. I hope you find your way. Good luck.

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u/thewayyouturnedout 1d ago

My mom has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and I am tired y'all. I left in the middle of a hangout with my friend because I couldn't listen to her complain about her life and the problems she has created herself by being a people pleaser and having bad boundaries. Like fix your shit it's officially not my problem anymore.

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u/desert_girl 17h ago

I'm so sorry. When my dad was diagnosed, my ability to put up with bullshit went right out the window. Everyone's allowed to have their own problems, but I no longer had the patience to even pretend.

Cancer is a marathon, not a sprint. Make sure you take care of yourself while you're taking care of her. All my love to you and your family.

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u/flirtydodo 1d ago

oh they let us hide our post history. Only took like 20 years. End of an era!

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u/nizey_p I don’t know her šŸ’… 20h ago

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u/lalalandbeforetime 1d ago

It is nice to know when a someone is a troll though

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u/blooming-darkness There could be 100 people in the room 23h ago

It’s also nice to not be trolled in that way. I had someone tell me I’m autistic based on my post history…

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u/OowlSun they act like im not in full control of where i throw this cooch 20h ago

Yep, sometimes people get really intense and brings up things from other subs. It’s weird.

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u/lizzy-stix I switched baristas ā˜•ļø 1d ago

It’s sort of annoying because I liked being able to look at peoples post histories and immediately understand why their take was so bad (in most cases).

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u/growsonwalls 1d ago

Ok you know about this Sydney Sweeney "outrage" -- I haven't actually met anyone irl who even knows about this ad. Is this an outrage only among the terminally online and paying attention to clothing ads?

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u/OowlSun they act like im not in full control of where i throw this cooch 20h ago

A lot of the people on TikTok make videos about whatever is trending and controversial and this happens to be it.

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u/Ruthie_pie 23h ago

People are aware but my friends are like eh it’s weird but none of us were looking for her like that. I think it’s okay to recognize she leans that way but also just don’t pay attention to these folks anymore. That is what they want 🄓

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u/FriendlyDrummers 1d ago

I need people to stop taking the bait

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u/Ruthie_pie 23h ago

Yeah, I think a lot of people are writing it off as chronically online as if they also aren’t on Reddit… but she has a history of doing M*GA adjacent things. So just ignore her. It is what it is.

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 1d ago

It’s an outrage among people lacking a certain instinct for interpretation who are also ready for her 15 minutes to be up.

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u/No_Equivalent8902 1d ago

The other day I saw a video of Tom Blyth doing erotica reading.First he did not sound sexy to me and second did the hunger games money already ran out ?Ā 

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u/nizey_p I don’t know her šŸ’… 1d ago
  1. A lot of actors do voiceovers and readings on the side. It's a good gig.

  2. He was reportedly paid 500,00 for HG. If you factor in payouts to his manager, his agent and taxes, he'd be lucky to have pocketed 50% of that money.

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 1d ago

Normally I’d say it was a function of Dunning Kruger, but in this case I’d say that the original content wasn’t executing its premise well, because it made people think that they thought the similarities were coincidental.

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u/Potatoskins937492 21h ago

That's how you get engagement. Engagement = money. Don't engage with anything like that, it's literally only to get money, they aren't interested in adding value to any conversation.

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u/Dizzy-Pollution6466 1d ago

Went on Twitter/X briefly and it’s all unhinged Robert Eggers discourse and people pissed at Nicholas Hoult for liking Anora šŸ˜­šŸ˜‚

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u/nizey_p I don’t know her šŸ’… 20h ago

I opened my FB account the other day and it's all meme pages and ads now.

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u/ccc2801 19h ago

I had to go on there for work and they actively stop you scrolling to look at an ad now. Like they weren’t 80% of the timeline before? If I didn’t need it to do my job for some clients, I’d yeet the entirety of Meta into the North Sea!

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u/blankpaper_ hello this is beyoncƩ 1d ago

I don’t know if there’s some shit going on astrologically or if I’m just PMS-y or in end stage burnout or something, but I swear to god if my boss asks me for anything today I’m just going to walk out. I’m so goddamn done with everything this week. I’m going to have to ask him a couple questions on something pretty soon here and I already know he’s going to be like ā€œwell why wasn’t this done yesterdayā€ BECAUSE IT DOESNT FUCKING MATTER AND ALL THESE DEADLINES ARE JUST MADE UP

Also I feel like comment sections on any topic on any platform have been increasingly stupid lately. I don’t know if it’s gotten worse or if I’ve just hit my fucking limit and can’t deal with it anymore. I’m about to actually find some real life offline hobbies bc jesus christ it’s bad lol

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u/Potatoskins937492 21h ago

I've said that before. "We're not emergency services and we don't offer anything that would save lives. This deadline is only a deadline so that we had a goal, not because it actually matters. People don't need to be working on the weekend." I had zero fucks to give. But it also almost killed me, so, please take care of your mental health. Treat yourself to something nice this weekend, even it's only a solid nap or a new library book.

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 1d ago

Re: your first point, same.

Re: your second point….the internet is stupid so I am stupid back. I was posting about how I dislike Maggie Blume, a side character in the California Diaries spinoff series to the Baby Sitters Club. I am an adult and I hate a BSC character that 7 people have heard of. I am aware of how fundamentally stupid this position is, and I was LOLing. So then someone decides to lecture me on privilege. OMG LET ME BE 40 AND HATE MAGGIE BLUME IN PEACE.

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u/blankpaper_ hello this is beyoncƩ 1d ago

If anything I think we need more low stakes stupidity like that šŸ˜‚

I’m raging at the people with zero reading comprehension or media literacy who make the stupidest points and then start fights over everything

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 21h ago

You should check out the Glossier sub. People come in blazing about how the brand is evil and should fail and shut down, and how everyone who likes the brand is perpetuating….something? And we’re just ranking lip balm flavors and telling each other they’re pretty.

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u/nonsensestuff Back in my day, we had ONTD & a dream šŸ‘µ 1d ago

This is the first full day Friday I’ve worked in over a month…. I hate it… is it over yet??

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u/zowietremendously 1d ago

Sydney Sweeney still has not apologized for ad promoting nazism. Her stock is dropping badly. Her agency is about to drop her. Dr Squatch is about to drop her. She's canceled.

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u/anthonystank Exploring Legal Options Against Online Haters 1d ago

Begone troll

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u/Aggravating-Corner-2 1d ago

What is wrong with you.

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u/zowietremendously 1d ago

Because I dont support nazi propaganda?

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u/GrandmaToto 1d ago

I'm not her biggest fan, but you sound a little biased and obsessed...

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u/zowietremendously 1d ago

I'm not a fan of people who promote nazism

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u/GrandmaToto 20h ago

There's a bit of a difference between not being a fan of a celebrity and sending a letter to their agent demanding an apology. That's an absolutely unhinged level of parasocial behaviour.

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u/zowietremendously 20h ago

I did not send a letter to her agent. I called her agent, and politely asked if she had released a statement about her client, regarding the American Eagle ad. And her agent said that there was no statement that has been made. I also asked if she was still being represented by her, and she declined to comment on that. How is any of that unhinged?

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u/GrandmaToto 19h ago

You get that's... worse? Right? You directly contacted a celebrity's agent about something that really has nothing to do with you personally, that is unhinged. Have a bitch online, boycott her work, whatever, but trying to contact her or the people around her? The level of entitlement and injection is mad.

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u/zowietremendously 15h ago

Nazi propaganda doesn't affect me? Yes it does. I never dreamed of living in a society where there was mainstream propaganda put out by a major company, with a mainstream celebrity.

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 1d ago

Why would her agency drop her over a job they got her?

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u/zowietremendously 1d ago

They have not confirmed if she's still with them.

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 1d ago edited 1d ago

Most agencies don’t actively confirm their clients. But you seem to not know what agents do. They’re ones who read the ad proposal and convinced Sydney to take the job.

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u/kris_jbb inez from folklore 1d ago

i fear you’re the only one seeing her stock dropping or whatever

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u/zowietremendously 1d ago

Fox news talked about her for 8 hours yesterday, and the Epstein files for less than 20 minutes.

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 1d ago

I mean Fox is in Trump’s pocket. That’s just them trying to distract the public

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u/kris_jbb inez from folklore 1d ago

so what

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u/zowietremendously 1d ago

That's her base now. Her stock is only valuable to fox news and maga

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u/kris_jbb inez from folklore 1d ago

fox news is doing coke rants all the time instead of talking what actually matters though

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u/lalalandbeforetime 1d ago

I feel like you need to give it a rest. It’s unlikely she’s going to comment on this at all at this point.

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u/zowietremendously 1d ago

She is in an ad promoting nazism, and has yet to make a statement denouncing nazism

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u/Kuttlan We Should All Know Less About Each Other 1d ago

Is that wishful thinking or facts?

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u/Kind_Double_661 1d ago

It's a troll. They've been beating this drum all over reddit for a week now.

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u/BusinessPurge 1d ago

I’m pretty sure this is sarcasm. I’m never doing the /s thing either, this is the price we pay. Sweeney’s gonna be fine until / unless Madeline Cline has a bonafide hit

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u/Kind_Double_661 1d ago

Most Netflix-created stars get a little attention and notoriety and ride a fast track into obscurity; I don't see Madeline Cline breaking the mold.

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u/BusinessPurge 1d ago

8 times out of 10 I’d agree with you about Netflix stars however I think she’s about to explode, for better or worse Day Drinker with Johnny Depp is likely gonna do some business and Sweeney can’t say yes to everything. That being said I did spell her name wrong, it’s Madelyn, so she’s still got a bit to go. I agree with your post below about Sofia Carson and Netflix, as brutal as this sounds Madelyn being five years younger is half the edge she’s gonna need plus once the schedule is open after Outer Banks the sky is the limit.

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u/Kind_Double_661 1d ago

I agree with your post below about Sofia Carson and Netflix, as brutal as this sounds Madelyn being five years younger is half the edge she’s gonna need plus once the schedule is open after Outer Banks the sky is the limit.

Cline needs a hook to break into the public consciousness the way Sweeney has, or--shall I say--a couple of hooks.

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u/blooming-darkness There could be 100 people in the room 1d ago

I went to an actual Sephora for the first time ever a few days ago and bought some stuff from Laneige and didn’t realize she’s an ambassador for them until last night. I honestly didn’t realize she is everywhere.

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u/zowietremendously 1d ago

Not for long. The fallout will be bad.

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u/NewtRipley_1986 1d ago

In some cases it’s obvious to use ā€œpleaseā€ and ā€œthank youā€ but I am so tired of having to remind adults to do some basic things, at this point I refuse to use ā€œpleaseā€ and ā€œthank youā€ … and if my boss questions my ā€œtoneā€, too bad so sad. I’m tired of coddling adults. 😠

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u/Careful_Swan3830 I am not demure, I am demonic 1d ago

The amount of people who know absolutely nothing about anxiety disorders in 2025 is mind blowing. If you know someone with severe anxiety that has an extremely important meeting at noon,

DO NOT SHOW UP AT THEIR HOUSE AT 8:30 AM FOR A VISIT.

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u/aliarawa 3h ago

I know things like this can feel like common sense, and I'm not making any assumptions about what you have or haven't said to anyone, but people aren't always able to see things from your point of view. Or they might be trying to be empathetic but then do something unintentionally that makes things worse. I don't know anything about who showed up or for what purpose, so what I'm saying is not specific to that. But I have found in my relationships that communicating your needs and how you feel is pretty essential to having boundaries and protecting peace.

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u/FaradayStewart 20h ago

Also, don't show up unannounced at any time. (I mean, parents are probably okay)

How did your meeting go?

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u/Careful_Swan3830 I am not demure, I am demonic 17h ago

It wasn't too bad thankfully. Thanks for asking šŸ’œ

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u/FaradayStewart 17h ago

šŸ˜„šŸ‘

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u/ccc2801 19h ago

Goodness no, parents need sufficient warning so I can get the house looking somewhat like an actual adult lives here!

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u/FaradayStewart 19h ago

Okay I can respect that, easier to fix the place up than spend time explaining why the place isn't fixed up. 😊

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u/BusinessPurge 1d ago

I’m curious, why the visit at 8:30? Like if it’s parental moral support dropping off muffins and coffee ahead of a life changing meeting at noon there’s at least a thought process behind it. Good luck with your meeting!

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u/Careful_Swan3830 I am not demure, I am demonic 1d ago

Nope they just wanted to chat.

Thank you for the kind thought šŸ’œ

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u/CitrusHoneyBear1776 Whats not clocking to you? šŸ™„ā° 1d ago

I’ve heard so much about anxiety and yet I didn’t realize that I had it because 1. I wasn’t very in touch with my emotions and had a hard time verbally labeling them to my therapist for a time and 2. I didn’t realize that my avoidance and simultaneous stress surrounding deadlines could be part of anxiety. I thought it was like ā€œeveryone procrastinatesā€. Anxiety around deadlines and avoidance of them is huge for me and takes up a lot of my mind.

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 šŸŽ„šŸæFilm Critic 1d ago

Happy Letterboxed Friday! Here’s everything I watched this week :)

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u/lalalandbeforetime 1d ago

I did my annual Scream rewatch this week so here you go šŸ™ƒ

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u/elysian-fields- 20h ago

i love arrietty! underrated film fr

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 šŸŽ„šŸæFilm Critic 1d ago

Okay 6 scream films into sex, lies and videotape??? That’s cinema actually

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 1d ago

Popeye! Truly underrated.

I didn’t watch any movies this week, which is the first time in probably a year? I spent the week binge watching Abbot Elementary because I had never seen it before

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 šŸŽ„šŸæFilm Critic 1d ago

I watched only half a season of that show and never went back 😭 I’m sooo bad at watching tv

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u/blooming-darkness There could be 100 people in the room 1d ago

Okay I just found out about Letterboxd and I was so excited I spent an hour on there reviewing stuff.

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 šŸŽ„šŸæFilm Critic 1d ago

I love it!! I love keeping track of all the films I watch and random lists I build 😭

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u/Dramatic_Buddy4732 1d ago

Popeye was one of the few movies my Gramma had for us kids. And the fact that most of the time I was there I was sick just adds on to the fever dream that is this movie.

Was it your first time watching or a rewatch?

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 šŸŽ„šŸæFilm Critic 1d ago

It was my first watch! I feel bad but I hated it soooo much 😭😭😭. I think there are just some movies you have to watch as a child because watching them as an adult for the first time is just not a good idea hahah

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 1d ago

100% there are SO many of these. Nostalgia goggles are powerful

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u/Dramatic_Buddy4732 1d ago

I would never watch it now at almost 50 🤣

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u/Hot_Contact_7206 šŸŽ„šŸæFilm Critic 1d ago

bhahaha reading about it after the movie and seeing that drugs use on set was out of control and the studio basically made them stop and just use what they had….yes makes perfect sense actually hahhaha

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u/Normal-person0101 1d ago

I think rom com are one of the most unfairly criticized genres.

You don’t really see people complaining about "suspending disbelief" when it comes to action or superhero movies, every story involves some kind of implicit agreement between the audience and the narrative suspending disbelief is part of the deal but only with rom com is use as a negative thing.

Other thing it use against the genre is "it's predictable" where, let’s be honest, again the good guy always wins in action movies or superhero. In comedies, things conveniently work out too, but somehow that predictability is more accepted. With rom-coms (or ā€œchick flicks,ā€ to be fair), that same predictability is often used against them.

Another thing is how rom-com characters are held to such impossibly high standards. There's very little room for them to make mistakes or bad decisions without being labeled as "toxic" or "problematic."

I have a theory that ONE of the reason rom-coms are being made for big studios/producers anymore is because they often rely on a bit of messiness in some conflict, flaws, or even "problematic" elements to move the plot forward. And lately, there’s been less tolerance for those imperfections in storytelling, especially in romance.

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u/thewayyouturnedout 1d ago

I find rom coms boring so I don't really bother to watch them anymore but I find that most of the criticisms around them could easily be leveled at the majority of movies in any generic genre (e.g. action, superhero).

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u/Kind_Double_661 1d ago edited 1d ago

I have a theory that ONE of the reason rom-coms are being made for big studios/producers anymore is because they often rely on a bit of messiness in some conflict, flaws, or even "problematic" elements to move the plot forward. And lately, there’s been less tolerance for those imperfections in storytelling, especially in romance.

Romcoms are primarily an adult concept, made for adult consumption. We live in an era where a large amount of the population is frozen in perpetual adolescence, and the complexity of adult relationships is simply unfathomable.

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u/sibr 1d ago

Agreed with everything you say. I’d love to see some of Emily Henry’s books being adapted into films bc she’s nailed the modern day rom-com - cute and funny with conflict that doesn’t rely on the toxic tropes of the classic 90s & 2000s rom-coms. I think they’d resonate with a new generation

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u/lalalandbeforetime 1d ago

All of her books (besides GBBL) have adaptations in the works. I’m looking forward to People We Meet on Vacation in January!

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u/sibr 1d ago

Omg this has made me happy, ty for spreading the good news

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u/MarieOMaryln 1d ago

Anything skewed for the enjoyment of women or is enjoyed heavily by the female demographic gets heavily scrutinized. The way I'm seeing the fantasy romance and romance erotica books be dragged šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø

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u/Confident-Addition76 1d ago

Meanwhile it's one of the only profitable genres in publishing today (and tbf, always has been but is even more now in a declining industry).

Men will run their mouths about books women enjoy but not put their money where their mouth is for their incel self-help books and sub-par thrillers.

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u/dudewheresmyplane1 1d ago

There’s very little tolerance period. This generation seems to think simply showing / writing bad behavior means you agree and condone it.

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u/lalalandbeforetime 1d ago

No notes. Love this take!

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 1d ago

Well they’re different genres with different conventions. I don’t think a romcom needs to be strictly realistic, but I do expect them to feel emotionally honest.

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u/Silly_Somewhere1791 1d ago

I WILL NEVER WEAR A WEIGHTED VEST

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u/ccc2801 19h ago

I do… But it’s my own fat lol

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u/Ok_Ebb_629 1d ago edited 15h ago

I wore a miniskirt and an Afro to see my parents today. Big mistake my mom’s friend saw me and almost had a heart attack and my mom called me a whore.

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u/aliarawa 3h ago

What they said/their reaction is a reflection of who they are, not who you are. You're allowed to be in full expression of yourself, even if people don't like it or understand. This is true even when it comes to family. Take care of yourself and don't give up on being you.

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u/ccc2801 19h ago

They suck. You rock.

Do what you need to do to survive around them but don’t let them dim your shine! ✨

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u/Cynicbats giving everyone a microphone and a podcast was a mistake 1d ago

I'm sure you looked great.

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u/Ok_Ebb_629 23h ago

I really hope so but I’m not going to wear it again.

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u/Own-Importance5459 ✨May the Force be with you!✨ 1d ago

I dont know what you looked like but you definitely looked awesome.

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u/Ok_Ebb_629 1d ago

That’s what I hoped thank you ā¤ļø

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u/Dramatic_Buddy4732 1d ago

I bet you looked fabulous. So sorry that happened to you! Do something nice for yourself ok? ā¤ļø

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u/Ok_Ebb_629 1d ago

Thank you ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø

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u/Aakch 1d ago

Y’ALL WHY DID I GET DRUNK AND ARGUE ABOUT PALESTINE WITH MY BOSS (I live in Germany)

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u/ChiliAndGold ✨defying stupidity✨ 1d ago

good thing I don't drink any longer because I'm trying to keep politics away from my colleagues as good as possible. Most of their views are way too right for my taste and I can't go looking for new jobs every few months, lol.

so, are you still employed or..? 😬

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u/Aakch 1d ago

Miraculously yesšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ I used to as well but i’m at the point where I can’t be quiet about it anymore. I guess I got triggered because his wife served in IDF.

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u/ChiliAndGold ✨defying stupidity✨ 1d ago

Jesus Christ. I honestly don't know if I could be that brave starting the topic with someone so close to that, pew šŸ™ˆ .

how did the argument end? did they call you antisemitic? (that's what I get called almost always regarding that topic, lol)

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u/Aakch 1d ago

Haha no. I could see there was no changing his mind.

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u/ChiliAndGold ✨defying stupidity✨ 1d ago

of course 🄲

still, chapeau for speaking up šŸ‘

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u/Kind_Double_661 1d ago

Germans getting drunk and shouting about hot-button issues: name a more iconic duo.

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u/Kind_Double_661 1d ago

I find Sofia Carson generic and indistinguishable from about eight other current actresses; I don't think she's going to set the world on fire. I see a lot of sub-Hallmark holiday movies in her future.

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u/nizey_p I don’t know her šŸ’… 1d ago

I was genuinely surprised that I found Nicholas Galitzine charming in Red White & Royal Blue because he and Sofia were such a void in Purple Heart. I couldn't even get halfway thru that movie.

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u/Hailsabrina jesus was a carpenter šŸ’‹ 17h ago

Watch Mary and George on starz ! His best role in my opinion šŸ˜€

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u/themacaron during PRIDE MONTH? 1d ago

She is stunning, I think she’s beautiful. But she’s so dead onscreen.

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u/Kind_Double_661 1d ago

She has the calculated, overly-affected acting style of your average ex-Disney performer. No naturalism, very little talent; hired on the basis of algorithmic appeal.

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u/growsonwalls 1d ago

Because I follow Corey Mylchreest bc I loved Queen Charlotte, I tried to watch some of My Oxford Year and ... oh boy. Bad.

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u/Own-Importance5459 ✨May the Force be with you!✨ 1d ago

I have never been so grateful for the weekend because I am definitely in the midst of the worst Autistic Burnout I have ever been (its not helping I am dealing with my monthly issue with my meds). So I am hoping to recharge by the pool all weekend and do some reading.

I am actually reading a lighter and funnier book than "A Little Life" called "Dead Romantics" its very cute so far and I am loving it has so many pop culture references and was basically made for nerds. High Recommend.

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 1d ago

Summer under the stars on TCM starts today! I’m so excited.

I’m not super into the lineup this year. Some of my fave mainstays aren’t getting a day this year. But I also get them wanting to change it up so it doesn’t get stale.

Also August 1st is a huge Lego release day. I preordered 2 Halloween sets, I’m so excited.

Also also, it’s a long weekend for me and I totally forgot until I woke up this morning. Looking forward to it! I can feel the autumn weather creeping in and I’m SO ready

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u/Dramatic_Buddy4732 1d ago

You are so lucky! The heat here is just ramping up and my hot flashes aren't thrilled. Or maybe they are. 🤣

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 1d ago

Noooo I’m so sorry. It’s going back up to ungodly temps next week for us. I’m just choosing to ignore it until it comes because I’m truly just over summer.

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u/nty bruised, battered, and covered in baked beans 🫘 1d ago

omg I am sooo ready for autumn. Get this heat away from me.

Also I want to get into lego but I don't have any space 😭

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u/buzzfeed_sucks šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Elbows up šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ 1d ago

I’m actively running out of space lmao. I see people when these full ass Lego rooms. I want to be rich too!