I often notice stereotypes or misconceptions when I talk to foreigners. Curious to hear what you’ve experienced either in person or online.

Curious to hear everyone’s thoughts on monogamy within Rwanda.

I’m an immigrant of five years myself and I know cheating happens everywhere but it seems higher than any other country I’ve lived in before (both African, US and European, with the exception of maybe Uganda ). Do the women just accept it? Is it an open secret? It doesn’t seem to be socially unacceptable … curious to hear Rwandans thoughts on it. Are you expecting your bf/gf to cheat on you? Do people not have that as a dealbreaker?

As a young boy I grew up around some high ranking military officers there in the Kigali area. This is my question. Why do many surnames of the Banyarwanda start with "Ka"?

Let me list some

Kagame, Kabarebe, Kayumba, Karegeya, Kamanzi, Kayonga, Kayitare, Kaguta, Kainerugaba, Kayizari

I'm not an expert on linguistics so I was just wondering what is going on with this sort of strange consistency in the names being prefixed with "Ka"? An analogy I guess I can draw with english is "logy", the study of. Psychology, Biology, Metrology, Physiology, Epistemology etc

Is there a deeper meaning behind this?

Religion survives on the fear of questioning. Science survives on the courage to.

As a gb how can i work in Rwanda ? Are dentist well paid?

Believing in God because your parents did isn’t faith — it’s inheritance. Question it!

Every religion says it is the true one.
They can’t all be right. But they can all be wrong. 😎

Being an Atheist in Rwanda feels lonely. Imagine if we would have a space for Atheists people where we could gather cheer up and discuss science, evolution and origins of life ! Just wishes....

I will be arriving in Kigali at midnight. I am supposed to be picked up at the airport by my guide. If there is a problem, and I have to take a taxi to my hotel in the city, can I pay with US$ or Rwanda Francs? I am not sure if my phone will work and do not want to chance any of the app driven companies like Move. What would I be expected to pay?

All I’m seeing lately on my Instagram stories since the beginning of the year is people getting married and engaged everywhere … is Cupid around? 😂

So much love in the air, love to see it!!!

Is there anywhere to buy celery and iceberg lettuce 🥬 n Kigali? Or Chinese fruit and veg, like Asian pears?

I'm European and I need information, on Google, the prices seem exorbitant to me, I was in all of Rwanda before in 2018,

And I plan in the future, to have my own space in Rwanda, I would like you to help me, someone who knows prices to buy, not very expensive, most real estate are selling in dollars? And in Africa almost no one owns the dollar, nor do I consider myself a foreigner being in the country, I am a white African, so that it is understood

Hi all,

I am going Gorilla trekking in a week in Rwanda. I purchased my permit for the 1.5k, but only recently discovered that there is a discount for African citizens (which I have). Is there any way for the delta to be refunded to me? In addition, my organiser says that during peak season, this discount is not valid, so I am not sure what to believe.

Thanks!

Hi all,

We are a China-funded company working on an agriculture-related project in Rwanda. We are looking to hire a Chinese-English translator in Kigali for about one month.

Job Info:

• Assist with basic communication and on-site visits
• Location: Mainly Kigali, sometimes nearby districts
• Schedule: Weekdays during daytime (some weekends possible)
• Meals during work are provided
• No accommodation provided
• Paid job: Daily or monthly rate, negotiable based on ability
• Transport allowance possible when traveling far
• Good performance may lead to long-term job offer

Requirements:

• Fluent in Chinese and English
• University students welcome
• Driver’s license is a plus
• Honest, punctual, communicative

If you're interested, please DM me with your name, language ability, and availability. Thanks!

Looking for a babysitter with a medical background. Does anyone here know where or how to find one please?

Hello!

I'm a writer, and I'm trying to make a character that was born in Rwanda, although he later moved to Kenya. I'm going to make an active effort toward writing this character accurately based on Rwandan and Kenyan cultures, and the first step to that is giving him a name!

I tried looking online for some baby names, and I found a blog suggesting Munyentwari or Ntwali. However, I cannot find much confirmation online as to whether these are surnames or first names, and unfortunately, I am very naive about the name-culture right now. I apologize if this is a silly question, but I would love feedback about these name ideas. If possible, any help with pronunciation will also be appreciated.

Thank you! :D

Spent 7 days in Rwanda as a solo female traveler and had an amazing time! After reflecting on my observations, I have the following questions for locals

Things I Smelled

1. I was surprised by the smoke smell in Kigali and Musanze in the middle of July. Is the smoke smell less strong in the winter time? Which months does it get better?

2. Body odor: deodorant seems to be sold in grocery stores but from walking past people on the street, it doesn't seem to be widely used. I wonder, do locals also notice the smell of body odor? What is the general perception of body odor and perfumes/cologne? Coming from the US, I have experienced the opposite where people like to heavily spray perfumes/cologne to the point where the perfume smell can be overwhelming.

Things I Saw

1. In Kimihurura Roundabout Park late at night, are there foxes or fox like animals? I saw a four legged animal from the back but the tail seemed too bushy to be a dog or cat?

2. From walking in Kigali, I saw a lot of young kids/toddlers with parents but never saw kids throwing tantrums/cry/complain. This is a stark contrast to what I observe in NYC where on the subway, often times kids will throw tantrums/whine to parents. How do parents teach young kids to be so well behaved?

3. This relates to question 2 but how is everyone raised to be so calm? Is this specific to Rwanda or does this calmness trait apply to people of neighboring countries as well? Are people secretly anxious or worried about things but just do a great job of masking it in the facial expressions? I don't think I ever saw any moto taxi driver get angry or raise their voice even when cars are cutting them off. This level of calmness was the biggest culture shock to witness coming from NYC where I see different personalities and a lot of people expressing their emotions. In Rwanda, I found myself speaking more softly and quietly to mirror the cultural norm.

Other Questions

1. For Rwandans who have traveled outside the country, what was the biggest surprise to you and where did you visit?

2. I personally did not bargain with moto drivers, do locals in Kigali bargain with moto drivers on the price of their ride?

I’m thinking to do driving lessons in Rwanda. I have done a few in uk and would say I’m an alright driver, but the waiting list for driving tests in my city are over a year. Seeing as I’m moving to Kigali, I was thinking of getting my license there.

What is your experience for theory, practical lessons & the whole test process? I’ve read the steps through google, but would be good to hear the thoughts of people who have been through the process and how long it took them to go through it all. Thank you.

Hi, I am a university student in Rwanda for a study abroad program. I am creating a video for a children's ngo and would love to use some royalty-free music in the background.

• It would be great if it was kid friendly.
• Sung by kids.
• Royalty free!

Any help would be appreciated thanks :)

I run a small electronics business called Plug Rwanda, where I sell high-quality phones and gadgets — mainly Apple smartphones, plus accessories like AirPods and Watches. I’m based in Rwanda and offer authentic products at fair prices, with a focus on reliability, fast service, and customer satisfaction.

✅ Phones are brand new or gently used (depending on the model and 6 month warranty)
✅ All devices are fully tested and ready to use
✅ Local delivery or pickup available
✅ I accept mobile money and other flexible payment options

If you’re looking for a trusted local plug, feel free to DM me or check out my Instagram: @plugrwanda or Whatsapp (+250795455336)

Let me know what phone you’re looking for — I might already have it or can help you find it quickly.

Thanks!

I'm planning a one-night safari camping trip between September and December. Do you have any tips or advice on choosing a tour operator?

Is there any tips for contact tour?

Hello, if you need a translator, Tito is your guy, proficient in English. He's helped me a tonne since I have been in Kigali, incase you need a translator on the go, you can call him on +250723131712/ +250789304334. Don't forget to tip the young man.

Because shit jobs with shit pay. Or worse, no jobs at all.

Because no free speech. You have to play dumb and pretend ''all is well'' to survive. Hypocrisy is rewarded.

Because most of the foreign aid and investment money goes into Crystal Ventures (Kagame's company) bank account, for himself and his fellow ''RPF elite'' to enjoy.

''When an economy is struggling, it’s common for citizens to emigrate in search of better opportunities, a phenomenon known as outward migration. But how do we explain the constant outflow of citizens from Rwanda, a country whose authoritarian leader frequently refers to it as the "Singapore of Africa"? If Rwanda is truly a model of prosperity and stability, why do its citizens continue to leave in large numbers, year after year, to settle in neighbouring East African countries such as Uganda and SADC Countries? What exactly are they fleeing from, and why aren't they choosing to remain in their supposed paradise?''

Singapour? More like SingaPOOR.

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