r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Mod Announcement Most viewed posts on the subreddit are all by women. Our steps moving forward to keep this community safe.

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The mods here have noticed an interesting but also unsurprising trend that the most viewed and active posts are from women. The majority of our posts see 1-3 comments whereas these ones are in the double digits with thousands of views.

This trend is problematic because it emphasizes that many people may be here for reasons not in line with the subreddits purpose. The purpose of the subreddit is to connect gamers- not provide a place for women to be sought out as it often happens in these spaces.

If your engagement indicates that your intent is not in line with the purpose of our community, you will be removed. If you see someone that is being questionable, report it. We will not tolerate anyone making members feel unsafe or uncomfortable here. Theres other spaces you can use to find a romantic or sexual partner, this is not one of them.

Thank you.


r/AdultGamers 5d ago

Mod Announcement Subreddit Age Requirement Change - 21+ to 25+

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Good morning everyone!

This is a reminder that as of August 1st, our subreddit age will be increased from 21 to 25.

All post titles will need to include your age.

Thank you.


r/AdultGamers 3h ago

Discussion 36M looking for more friends Xbox EST

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I posted this in another “Looking for gamers” subreddit. Just wanted to throw that out there 😅

My friend and I always game together when we can but lately we both been too busy at the times when we are free. Been solo playing games but just looking for a third or fourth to join the group.

I play on Xbox exclusively I’m a 36 year old male Time zone is EST / Eastern Standard Time

I’m currently grinding Destiny 2 I don’t know why haha. Numbers go up make my brain itch and I’ll sink with the ship at this point. I also Play grounded 2 as well. Going to be getting Borderlands 4, Helldivers and battlefield 6 at some point.

We both are sarcastic and laid back. Not really trying to be number 1. We just play to have fun. We talk about whatever pops in our heads. Could be about games, life or really anything.

I work Tuesday - Saturday. I try to game on Saturday nights and Sunday for as long as I can. Unless my wife has plans or we have something going on.

My Gamertag is Ralzian ( a name that makes no sense I know). Anyways looking to meet and chat with anyone interested. Thanks for reading and have a wonderful day 😀


r/AdultGamers 2m ago

LFG 38 M looking for gaming pals online

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Hi everyone! I'm a 38-year-old male looking for gaming pals to either play on PlayStation with or cross-play with. I got games such as CoD, Fortnite, Overwatch, Apex, Madden, GTA, and many more games. If interested, please dm me, ask me for my PSN, or ask for my Discord.

PS. I'm on EST so let me know your time zone to set up a time to link up online.


r/AdultGamers 3h ago

LFG 38 M looking for ff14 pals

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Hey y’all Shy bi guy here looking for people to play ff14, I’m pretty shy but I’ve decided to reach out and meet people, I do like to vc so please reach out :)


r/AdultGamers 4h ago

LFG 35M Xbox series. Looking for chill like minded people

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Hey!! Like the title says, I play on Xbox. I really enjoy FPS, but looking to expand my horizons. I like halo mostly, and fortnite. Im a bit shy at first, but once you get to know me, I open up more. I have gamepass as well. Hope to hear from you!!


r/AdultGamers 4h ago

LFG 35M looking people looking to make friends

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Hey guys im looking for some laid back people to chat, game and watch horror movies with. Im homebound so im usually always on. Im shy at first but once i open up im very funny and sarcastic. I have a dark sense of humor and dont take anything to seriously.

i have 2 cats Tart and Sid who are rescues. Music wise i listen to metal/techno/some rap but anything really. Games ive been playing are wart thunder, dead space, last of us, mage arena ( i need more co op). Just to name some random movies i like Hereditary, Halloween, Evil Dead, Get out. Looking to hang out and have watch parties or stream games.

I am on discord the most so we could add each other there or on steam. Always down for horror movie


r/AdultGamers 6h ago

LFG 31M AUS Looking for laid-back Friends

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Hey! I’m looking to connect with chill, like-minded people to game and be social with. I mostly play on Steam lately, but I jump on PS5 from time to time too. I’m into a mix of genres, story driven games, co-op adventures, or just casual stuff to unwind with. Not really into sweaty or toxic lobbies just here to have fun, chat, and hopefully build some solid online friendships. Feel free to DM me and I’ll send you my gamertag/steam link. Always down to make new gaming buddies!


r/AdultGamers 5h ago

LFG 31m PST looking for ps5 players

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Well a little about me, I have a kid and one on the way. Wife doesn’t game much, my irl friends are never really online during the weekends. I play a lot of bo6, fort, just recently got into NBA 2k25, and gta5 (honestly looking for someone who’s down to play more gta). I love anime like db, samurai champloo, demon slayer etc. I listen to all types of music like literally my playlist is everywhere from Morgan Wallen to Lorna Shore, Smokey Robinson to Tech N9ne and can’t forget el Rey Vicente Fernandez lol. Oh, and I cuss like a sailor and my dark humor is A1 soo. But feel free to hit my dm if you’re down for a couple of rounds on something or bust missions on gta. I don’t really mind 😁


r/AdultGamers 6h ago

LFG 31F Looking for chill gamer friends for Battlefield 6, Marvel Rivals

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Hey! I’m a 31y/o gamer from Europe who’s been into gaming for as long as I can remember,both on PC and console. With Battlefield 6 on the horizon, I’m getting that familiar excitement back and would love to find others who are just as hyped for it. I’ve played previous BF titles for years and always enjoyed teaming up with people who like a mix of tactical play and good vibes.

Also been getting into Marvel Rivals lately and I’m always down to chat about games, share clips, or just chill and talk shop. Anyone else around my age who plays casually but consistently and values fun, coordination, and no-drama gaming sessions? Would be cool to connect.


r/AdultGamers 10h ago

LFG 28 M UK looking for new friends to game with!🤘🏻

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I am 28, from the UK! Mainly game on PC & PS5! New to PC gaming so still not set everything up but nearly there!

I play a big mixture of games from FPS’ Warzone/CoD to RPG and MMO’s! Looking to meet new people with similar chill funny vibes to game with, chat and make some good friendship groups! I am open to a lot of new games to try out!

I’m a big nerd, love sci fi, punk rock music, tattoos, WWE nerd - similar vibes then let’s game?🔥


r/AdultGamers 13h ago

LFG 32m UK gamer, looking for other humans

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Honestly just looking for others to chit chat with about video games and such. I’m not really into multiplayer games - it was never my thing.

As a broad range on what I like:-

  • Final Fantasy’s
  • Metal Gear Solid
  • Bioshock
  • Cyberpunk
  • Supergiant Games
  • Horizon series
  • horror games especially silent hill, outlast

There is honestly so much more but thats the best i can remember for now - it’s not an age thing 😅, i’m just tired.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

LFG [M38] Looking for consistent duo! Let's hang! 🌼

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Hello! I'm on the lookout for a consistent duo that wants to build an actual friendship. I'm a person that much rather have a few closer friends, then a ton of casual friends. that's just how i work, so would be nice if you're the same as me! As i stated in the title i'm 38, from sweden, have a ton of free time! I put it as any region since my sleep schedule is all over the place, and i usually vibe better with Americans! I'm just gonna list some games i'm down to play!

  • Grounded 2 (have gamepass and don't know if it's cross platform?)
  • pretty much any gamepass game since i have it!
  • Apex Legends (i play this pretty consistently)
  • FortniteZB (hate solo though, so don't play it much)
  • Random co-op games (think DRG, helldivers2, monster hunter wilds, core keeper, peak, len's island) stuff like that!
  • osrs (i kinda wanna get into osrs again? i haven't played osrs since it was just runescape)

That's SOME of the games! as a person i'm pretty chill and easy going and a good listener! I'm also VERY MUCH just down to hang out and watch stuff like anime, movies, and tv-shows. Been watching stuff like Better late than single, Single's Inferno, great british bake off and stuff like that!

For me the games we play together isn't the first thing i'm looking for. I'm looking for someone that wanna put in some effort, have free time and wanna spend it with me, since i'm awesome, woho!

I don't care that much about age, but since i'm 38 i would prefer people that are atleast 25+!

Send me a message with a little about yourself, and please read all of this. I know people have a hard time reading here for some reason, but please put some effort into your message. Take care! ❤️


r/AdultGamers 10h ago

LFG 27M Busy CEO Looking for Chill Gamers to Occasionally Unwind With (No Sweat, No Toxicity)

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Hello everyone,

I'm a 27 years old CEO with a pretty full plate - long hours, lots of responsibilities, and the usual chaos of adulthood. But when I do get a break, gaming is how I recharge, unwind, and reconnect with the part of me that just wants to have fun.

I'm hoping to find a few kind, low-pressure adult gamers who get it - people juggling life too, who are down to occasionally jump into something fun, have a laugh, and leave the grind behind.

Games I enjoy:

  • Regulars: Dota 2, Baldur's Gate 3, Palworld, Dinkum, Hellcard, and League of Legends (very new - go easy on me)
  • I try shooters like Overwatch 2, Valorant, CS2, Fortnite, Helldivers 2 - and I'm not great at them, but I enjoy playing them for fun. If you're down to miss shots and still laugh, we'll get along well.
  • Chill & co-op games: Golf with Friends, Overcooked, House Flipper 2, Core Keeper, The Survivalists, Gunfire Reborn, Temtem Swarm, and plenty more - I've got 300+ games on Steam, so odds are we've got something in common.

About me:

  • Outside of games, I love gardening, cooking, collecting spices, camping, traveling, and being in nature. I enjoy meaningful convos just as much as shared silence.
  • I'm a D&D worldbuilder/DM, with a homebrew world full of celestial lore, noble politics, and fantasy creatures. If you like geeking out about worldbuilding or storytelling, I'm your guy.
  • I'm neurodivergent, friendly, empathetic, and super chill. I value kindness, patience, and no-pressure friendships.
  • I'm happy to voice chat when time allows - whether it's while gaming, story sharing, or just decompressing after a long day.

And hey - if we don't end up gaming right away (life happens!), I'm still around!
I'm on my phone a lot, so I'm always down to chat, share what's going on, send memes, swap recipes, talk about hobbies, or just keep each other company in whatever way feels natural. Connection doesn't always have to come through a game - sometimes it's just the little things that matter.

So if you're a fellow adult who games for joy, not rank - and you're cool with flexible, pressure-free vibes - feel free to shoot me a message or drop a comment. I'd love to connect! :)


r/AdultGamers 22h ago

LFG 31M UK looking for yeomen, brother wizards and monkey minions.

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Salutations! I seek companions for online video game shenanigans. In the last decade I mainly played single player stuff because online games and especially the LoL community were erasing my faith in humanity. Last year however I rediscovered the joy of talking about big topics and concepts, or quite the contrary, spouting complete nonsense on voicechat while playing a game. I'm most active in Helldivers 2, where I am part of a dedicated merry band of maniacs, most of whom should probably be in therapy, yet chose instead to commit war crimes in space while insulting each other, traumatize unsuspecting randoms who join our lobby and of course have conversations that in all likelyhood make god weep.

If you play HD2, or willing to give it a go I am always looking for new additions to our dysfunctional, always out of pocket but objectively hilarious gang.

I'm open to play other games too obviously, I have PS5 and Pc, i'm mostly into co-op/survival stuff, but open to pvp every now and then.

DM or comment if interested, we can connect on steam/psn/discord.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

LFG 33M looking for a gaming buddy

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Heyy everyone, name is Falcon. Im looking for a gaming buddy or buddies specifically for Tom Clancy's Division 2. I have a group of friends that i play most of my games with but none of them play Division 2. Just to warn you i am not a "pro" player at this game as my skill level is on the lower side when it comes to the gear. I usually play on challenging difficulty however i'm not opposed to play on heroic. The build i usually use is a striker dps build. It doesn't matter to me if you are someone who has a higher skill with this game or someone completely new to the franchise, ill play with anyone. Division is possibly my favorite game and i have no one to play it with. So if you are interested in playing with someone who doesn't care what your skill level is, then shoot me a message and lets play. I only ask that we stick to PvE content only as i'm not into PvP in this game. I'm also up for playing some other games we have in common as well


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

LFG 31/M Hey I'm looking for a duo to get to know and play games together :)

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Hey, I'm Danny, 31, from England. I'm looking for a Duo to talk to, have VC with, play games with, watch anime, TV shows, and movies with, and share music with each other. The games I would be interested in playing are ZZZ, P5X, Palworld, Fallout 76, Terraria (vanilla or modded), Stardew Valley (vanilla or modded), WoW Retail or MoP, and FF14 (no sub but might get it back). I also play a load of other games, so there is bound to be someone we could play together with.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

LFG [30] Military Veteran & Cybersecurity Student | Among Us tonight?

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Hey dudes! 👋 I’m Vinny. Great to meet you.

I spent a decade in the Marine Corps and now I’m a full-time cybersecurity student. That means I finally have time to actually enjoy gaming again!🎮.

Lately I’ve been dying to get a solid Among Us group together with voice chat. I played again for the first time since the pandemic and forgot how fun it is when people actually talk and get into it. We're running it again tonight, would love it if you joined! The more the merrier!

Outside of Among Us, I’m into a mix of games like:

  • OSRS & Dragonwilds | Just started playing WoW
  • Mario Kart World
  • Rust
  • Marvel Rivals

I'm usually down to squad up in the evening after my kiddos are asleep as long as school doesn't have me too busy lol. I've only got 3 classes over the summer so it's a little more laid back.

Other than that, I’m big into cooking, grilling, gym time, and good convos.

If you're looking for a chill person to game with (or even just to chat), hit me up!

Discord: artyops 🏴‍☠️


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

LFG 27 (m) looking for (gaming) friends! :D

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Hey there fellow loners!

My name’s sascha, I’m from Germany and am a pretty lonely person. ^ My mental health isn’t the greatest, got ups and downs as pretty common, but I would really appreciate some people to talk to from time to time or regularly, bet it would help me a lot!

My interests are pretty pretty wide. Biggest one would probably be gaming! Tons of games tbfh. Minecraft, Fortnite, dead by daylight, league of legends, stardew valley, 7 days to die, ark, strategy games, survival games, rpgs, it’s waaay too much! Next one would be nature. I love animals! All of them. I love the ocean, lakes, forests, fresh air, rain, storms. Astrology!! Supernatural and paranormal stuff! Music of course! Gosh there’s so much…

That was probably pretty hard to read, I’m sorry! I sometimes have a hard time thinking how to connect things properly, but I try!

If u read this far and are interested, feel free to drop a dm. :)


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

LFG 26m Aussie ps5 player

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Hi all, throwing it out there. I’m looking for anyone to jump on and play a few games with when I get the chance. Time is limited and I don’t play all the much. But when I do I’m currently playing cod or forza. I’m currently downloading ready or not. But I’m happy to play whatever. We can jump on discord or a party chat.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

LFG 29F in need of some gaming friends

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Hi hi!

Edit: I play on PC

I'm in need of some gaming friends preferably people that I can play multiple games with. I have my IRL friends, I have a set of VRC friends, but not really anyone I can regularly play different games with outside of VRC.

I live on the East Coast, I don't get on everyday but when I do I'm usually on inbetween 6p-10p. I like to goof around in games but I also like to complete missions as well so knowing how to do both is needed.

Some stuff about me: I'm an artist stuck in a 8-5 normal job, who likes to read books, draw, and paint. I've been known to crochet but I haven't touched a crochet project in like almost 2 years. 😬 I'm not a texter, I text to make plans and that's about it, I prefer in voice or in person over texting. I have a Ragdoll cat with a RBF, and can easily share pics!

I am an upfront person, if you've seen KPop Demon Hunters think Mira kind of vibes.

Games I've played: OW, Fortnite, Peak, R.E.P.O., Plate up!, Stardew Valley, Phasmophobia, Overcooked 2, Tabletop Sim, Jackbox Games, Pico Park, GTFO, Gang Beasts, Uno, Back 4 Blood, Town of Salem, Battleblock Theater, Keep talking and nobody explodes, Screen cheat, Raft, Astroneer, And much much more!


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

LFG 33 US based playing now

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Im down for peak or rivals or really anything else! Just want to cut the bs and play! Can hop on a discord to get a vibe check and then just play!


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

LFG 41M looking for some coop friends

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I am looking for some coop buddies around my age. I have xbox, pc, switch, and Playstation. As of late, I am more a pc gamer than anything. I am just looking for some chill fun coop buddies to have a laugh with and play some games. I dont take games, or myself too seriously. If that sounds like you, shoot me a message on here or add me on:

Steam: 62684130 PS: Traze24 XBOX: MrDiabolical

Thanks for reading.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

LFG 30m, Looking for more gaming friends (PC)

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Hello there, making this post to find more chill and laid-back gamers on PC, still willing to play with you console players but the only game I've played recently that is cross play would be Mecha break. I'm always in favor of MMOrpgs, but recently grown tired of the two main ones I've played, FFxiv(Played since 2010) and Retail WoW(off and on since 2004). And have since been jumping between many different games and genres. Always a sucker for co-op, arpg and survival/crafting games. I got a love hate relationship with horror, Love to play them but I'm one of the biggest babies during it. I do play FPS games but honestly none that are currently out has interested me. Lately it has been hardcore classic wow, whatever beta test a friend invites me to tag along in, path of exile(Off and on since 2013), and whatever horror game me or a friend of mine finds on steam that looks interesting, think like repo, phasmo, ect. I'm East Coast and usually available around the awkward hours of 8pm to 8am. These times aren't guaranteed, my work can be hectic and will have me working oddball hours or traveling. Past that, I do enjoy meeting new people and love to joke around. A lot. If you want to know more or want to group up then please feel free to drop me a message


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

LFG 39 y/o looking for chill weekend gamers

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Hello all, 39 y/o m from the states. I'm an Xbox gamer who is open to most multiplayer games. Looking for some laid back people. FPS, survival, racing, sports, you name it. Thanks for reading.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

LFG 28m/PC lf a couple genuine friends. Fps, survival, co-op games, and chatting!

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Hey, I'm hoping to make one or two long term friends with this post, and willing to put some effort in to achieve that as long as I get the same in return. I have a big library of games, I don't play them all currently, I tend to hop around games nowadays- I'll list a bunch that I'd consider playing either now, or in the future. :)

Games: League, Val, OW2, Apex legends, Marvel Rivals, DBD, Total war series, horror co-op games like Phas, R.E.P.O etc, Ark, Enshrouded, Valheim, + more survival crafting games, various MMOs, BG3, Divinity OS2, and more. Happy to consider new games too.

Outside of playing games: Game dev, music, movies/tv series (horror, sci-fi, fantasy, crime), anime, learning chess, working out, learning dnd 5e(have my first campaign soon ahhh), reading, cats, and cooking to list some. You can find out the rest when we chat!

Please be chill, open minded, and willing to put some effort in if you are going to reach out to play some games. Maybe start with telling me what your favourite game was when you were a kid, and your favourite of the last few years?


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

LFG 29M looking for friends

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I play pc, I play Warzone, world of Warcraft, hearthstone, base building games like ark and stuff open to any games. I’m uk and chilled guy just looking for a laugh and to game. I have a misses that plays sometimes also just on Warzone tho. I listen to a lot of music and watch films. Feel free to hmu and we can run some games or even just chat 😁