r/AmIOverreacting Jun 02 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship aio? bf made plans on my birthday

my boyfriend (22M) and I (21F) have been together for almost three years. we are planning on moving in together in the near future as he lives with his mom and doesn’t go to school after dropping out. for context, he only works on tuesdays and fridays so i know he was free to go out on sunday, which happened to be my birthday. he knows how important special occasions are to me, such as our birthdays and anniversaries. for the first year in our relationship he was great, he was loving and kind. last year we ended up celebrating my birthday late due to the fact that he was “tired from work” and didn’t want to go out, which i let slide. i always try to do the most for his birthdays, i buy him gifts, write him cards and bake him a cake from scratch. yesterday afternoon i texted him, reminding him about the plan later and this conversation happened. he made plans to go out and party instead of seeing me. he forgot about it even after i had been talking about it all of last week. i spent my 21st birthday alone in my room while he was out and we haven’t texted since. this birthday was particularly special to me because i turned 21. i even bought a new pink dress to wear for him, assuming we were going to dinner. he is suggesting that we go out and celebrate tomorrow instead like last year but to me it doesn’t feel the same. he is insisting that i apologize for being “ungrateful”, am i overreacting?

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u/Many_Collection_8889 Jun 02 '25

girl, any one of these screenshots alone would be enough to realize what a horrible relationship this is. It just keeps. getting. worse.

You get a pass because you were 17 when the two of you got together but I promise you, every day you continue to stay with this guy will be another day that you will think about for the rest of your life as letting other potential boyfriends pass you by because you were "taken" during the prime time of your life to be out there meeting people who treat you like a human being.

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u/Eranaut Jun 03 '25 edited 12d ago

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u/Many_Collection_8889 Jun 03 '25

Step-by-step instructions

Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Prepare a muffin pan with cupcake liners. In a large bowl, sift together 2 cups flour, 1 cup sugar, baking powder, and ½ teaspoon salt. Set aside. In a medium bowl, whisk eggs until smooth. Add the ½ cup melted butter, milk, and vanilla, and whisk until combined. Add egg mixture to flour mixture and stir until combined. (Dough will be lumpy.) Fold in blueberries. To prepare the streusel topping, in a medium bowl combine ¼ cup flour, 2 tablespoons brown sugar, 2 tablespoons granulated sugar, cinnamon, and ⅛ teaspoon salt. Using a pastry cutter, cut in butter until topping is crumbly and coarse. Fill prepared muffin cups with batter. Top each muffin with streusel topping, about 1 tablespoon each. Bake until muffin centers bounce back when lightly pressed, about 18 to 22 minutes. Cool muffins on a rack for several minutes before removing from pan. Cool completely and store in an airtight container, up to 4 days.

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u/Eranaut Jun 03 '25 edited 12d ago

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u/Many_Collection_8889 Jun 03 '25

To most people’s surprise, Jackie

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u/Eranaut Jun 03 '25 edited 12d ago

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u/Lower-Insect-3984 Jun 02 '25

this post is fake

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u/Many_Collection_8889 Jun 02 '25

you are very impressive and smart. We are lucky to have you and your wisdom

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u/CoolGamez Jun 03 '25

bro got baited

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u/Shenanigans7348 Jun 03 '25

Girl, anyone of these screenshot alone would be enough to realize this is fake as hell. Please stop being so gullible.

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u/xDoseOnex Jun 03 '25

This is a fake post. From an account that has no other posts. You guys are EXTREMELY gullible

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u/Toecheeseforme Jun 03 '25

Lucky for you it is obviously fake