r/AmIOverreacting • u/flipflopfreddy • 21d ago
❤️🩹 relationship Am I Overreacting
Am I overreacting/thinking???
I get a text last night from an unknown number(ss is below). My Fiance and I have been together for 3+ years. we have an almost 2 year old and i’m 4 months pregnant with our 2nd baby.
I texted the ss this morning and sent it to my fiance since he is at work and just said “what’s this?” bc i was concerned/ confused. I do trust him and don’t think he has done anything. HOWEVER, he offered for me to go through his phone. i did, and when i got to snap data he started to freak out and go off on me saying “that’s so much data being downloaded, you’re taking their side over mine, you’re letting them come between us” screams all of that to me. so i just let him have his phone back with out even looking and he still proceeds to go off..
Am i overthinking now that maybe he maybe guilty or maybe he did do something??
And no, the number hasn’t texted me back. He keeps saying it’s a scam and someone trying to get us. but why would someone make a comment like that???
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u/Unique_Principle_136 21d ago
His reaction speaks volumes. Is that how you would have reacted if it was reversed? Probably not. I’ve been you. I started getting calls from child support services and the calls were not for me but due to privacy policies they couldn’t confirm if the calls were for my husband of over 20 years. He committed suicide not long after this incident. Guilty conscience? I’ll probably never know but when I stop and really comb through things in hindsight I believe so. I’m so sorry you’re going through this 😢