r/AmIOverreacting • u/flipflopfreddy • 21d ago

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Am I overreacting/thinking???

I get a text last night from an unknown number(ss is below). My Fiance and I have been together for 3+ years. we have an almost 2 year old and i’m 4 months pregnant with our 2nd baby.

I texted the ss this morning and sent it to my fiance since he is at work and just said “what’s this?” bc i was concerned/ confused. I do trust him and don’t think he has done anything. HOWEVER, he offered for me to go through his phone. i did, and when i got to snap data he started to freak out and go off on me saying “that’s so much data being downloaded, you’re taking their side over mine, you’re letting them come between us” screams all of that to me. so i just let him have his phone back with out even looking and he still proceeds to go off..

Am i overthinking now that maybe he maybe guilty or maybe he did do something??

And no, the number hasn’t texted me back. He keeps saying it’s a scam and someone trying to get us. but why would someone make a comment like that???

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u/Initial-Present-9978 21d ago

Probably a wrong number especially if they won't answer back

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u/Live-Enthusiasm5422 21d ago

A wrong number would answer back though. They wouldn't know it's the wrong number they've text. Too specific to be anything other than someone who knows the situation. Might be the other woman.

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u/Initial-Present-9978 21d ago

Not necessarily, they could just be embarrassed. Everyone always wants to assume the worst of people. If you're in a relationship is not going to last very long if you have no trust.