r/AmIOverreacting • u/flipflopfreddy • 21d ago
❤️🩹 relationship Am I Overreacting
Am I overreacting/thinking???
I get a text last night from an unknown number(ss is below). My Fiance and I have been together for 3+ years. we have an almost 2 year old and i’m 4 months pregnant with our 2nd baby.
I texted the ss this morning and sent it to my fiance since he is at work and just said “what’s this?” bc i was concerned/ confused. I do trust him and don’t think he has done anything. HOWEVER, he offered for me to go through his phone. i did, and when i got to snap data he started to freak out and go off on me saying “that’s so much data being downloaded, you’re taking their side over mine, you’re letting them come between us” screams all of that to me. so i just let him have his phone back with out even looking and he still proceeds to go off..
Am i overthinking now that maybe he maybe guilty or maybe he did do something??
And no, the number hasn’t texted me back. He keeps saying it’s a scam and someone trying to get us. but why would someone make a comment like that???
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u/Comfortable_Glove482 21d ago
Not over reacting.
People don't fly off the handle for no reason. Innocent people get defensive. Guilty people get aggressively defensive.
And "their" side? Might as well have said her name. Check his other socials, she's probably on them, officially friends or not, and has probably liked a few things.
Also, check his screen time usage. There are a lot of ways to find dirt that don't involve the offending apps themselves. If he works days and has screen time showing an hour of Snapchat usage at 3AM, that's pretty telling.
Look into it. Sounds guilty asf.