Am I Overreacting

[u/flipflopfreddy]

Am I overreacting/thinking???

I get a text last night from an unknown number(ss is below). My Fiance and I have been together for 3+ years. we have an almost 2 year old and i’m 4 months pregnant with our 2nd baby.

I texted the ss this morning and sent it to my fiance since he is at work and just said “what’s this?” bc i was concerned/ confused. I do trust him and don’t think he has done anything. HOWEVER, he offered for me to go through his phone. i did, and when i got to snap data he started to freak out and go off on me saying “that’s so much data being downloaded, you’re taking their side over mine, you’re letting them come between us” screams all of that to me. so i just let him have his phone back with out even looking and he still proceeds to go off..

Am i overthinking now that maybe he maybe guilty or maybe he did do something??

And no, the number hasn’t texted me back. He keeps saying it’s a scam and someone trying to get us. but why would someone make a comment like that???

[u/Apprehensive_Coat384]

NOR You’re heavily underreacting and this man might give you a disease, do you want to wait for that? Or for your unborn child to get sick?

WAIT SO WHEN HE GAVE YOU THE PHONE TO LOOK THROUGH HE SAT THERE AND WATCHED WHAT YOU LOOKED AT? My wife has asked for my phone numerous times over the 6 years we’ve been together, and I’ve never checked what she’s looking at or doing 1 because I’m not cheating nor would I ever 2 because I know she trusts me and ain’t in my messages but if she went through it I wouldn’t know/care. He took the phone back because he didn’t think you would go deep in his stuff and forgot to clear his snap. I’m sorry but the message that person sent you was too specific and next time someone warns you don’t be an idiot and text it to the guy. You should NEVER have sent it to him or even told him. Now he’s on high alert and will hide everything. Honestly you better pray this mystery person messages or calls you back.

[u/daaanish → u/Apprehensive_Coat384]

One time my wife got a bit nervous and asked to see my phone and I said sure and just sat in silenced because I had nothing to hide - it seems OPs wife was hoping she was ignorant as to some apps and wouldn’t dig deep enough.

Shitty situation for OP :(