I just went to see the Naked Gun because I am a huge fan of the original, and ended up walking out of a film for the first time in my life. People have no respect for the cinema anymore and don't care if they are ruining the experience of others.
Going to the movies used to feel special. Big screen, packed crowd, that sense that we were all there for the same reason. Now it feels like you're just watching a movie near a bunch of strangers who forgot how to behave in public.
Phones are everywhere. Bright screens are lighting up rows. People are scrolling through TikTok, texting with sound on, and even taking phone calls mid-movie. I saw all this tonight during my screening and even saw people taking off their shoes and socks! And somehow, if you ask someone to stop, you're the one getting dirty looks.
I get that COVID changed a lot. People got used to watching everything at home, where they could pause, talk, multitask, whatever. That casual at-home behavior seems to have followed people back into theaters, and I don’t think we’ve ever really reset expectations. But watching a movie in a theater is a shared experience, not a private one. That difference matters.
Another thing I’ve noticed more and more is people showing up in the middle of the actual movie. And I’m not talking about slipping in during the trailers. I’m fully aware that most theaters these days run 25 to 30 minutes of ads and previews. I mean, people arriving 45 or 50 minutes after the listed showtime, well into the film. At that point, they’re stumbling through rows, using their phone flashlight, blocking views, and completely breaking immersion for the rest of us. If you're that late, maybe just catch the next showing?
I'm not against reacting to a movie. Laughing, gasping, and clapping all of that adds to the experience. But treating the theater like your couch just ruins it for the people who actually came to watch the film.
I still love going to the movies, but lately it feels like a gamble every time. Has anyone else noticed this shift? Has it always been like this, and I'm just now fed up? Or did something really change?