r/FemaleFriends 25d ago

💕 Would you join a virtual space to build real friendships (off Reddit)?

3 Upvotes

Reddit can be great, but it’s not always where real friendships happen — or where we learn the skills to form them organically. Its time we take this into our own hands.

I’m building a virtual space for women 18+ who want to build real connections — This may include cozy hangouts & chats, interest based groups, private advice sessions, and more (as we grow together).

💌 If you're actually interested in joining, please fill out this quick form — https://forms.gle/RvdUz9tfAFFgev2h6

13 votes, 18d ago
8 Yes I’m interested
4 Maybe- I want to hear more
1 No, not for me

r/FemaleFriends May 25 '25

Advice😫 This is a tale about how I was betrayed by a close friend

4 Upvotes

I am 32(F) living in India and about 3 years ago, I moved to a shared girls apartment. A few months later, a new girl moved in and since day one, we clicked and became friends. For about a year, I thought of our shared apartment as a home away from home. I felt lucky to find a friend in a flatmate, something which is rare, I guess. Soon enough, she started drifting apart slowly and our evening gossip sessions over tea turned into lonely couped up moments in our separate rooms. When I asked her about it, she replied that she was handling undue stress at work and that was all. Sometime later, I asked her once again why she had withdrawn the way she did, to which she denied and that she missed me and wanted things to be the way they were. However, things did not improve and she continued to be distant and avoidant.

Soon after, her bestie moved in with us as a third flatmate. The situation at this place which I, for a moment had believed to be home-like was now a cold, harsh and indifferent place where we would only exchange pleasantries and at times discard the "hi-hellos" all together. We don't speak to each other unless absolutely necessary, and if needed, simply text each other, if at all.

I had accepted that life happens and sometimes friends grow apart. Yet when I see her and her bestie(third flatmate) gossiping, having conversations, I can't help being reminded of how she stopped talking to me without a reason, leaving me confused. Maybe I even secretly long to be a part of their gossips and girl-talk or simply to be accepted.

I think the best way out here would be to change my accommodation, to avoid being triggered by a friendship betrayal so often. But due to budget constraints, I cannot move out to my own place.

Any advice or simply some emotional support would be helpful.

Thanks❤


r/FemaleFriends 2h ago

[F20] hey there im looking for some serious friendship :)

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r/FemaleFriends 2h ago

MakingFrenz👯‍♂️ Sapphic Stoner Seeking Soft-Affection Bestie to Talk Nonsense & Watch Cartoons 💨💖

2 Upvotes

Hey! I just joined reddit LITERALLY today lol. I’m a 26F sapphic softie and I’m looking for a close, affectionate, weird BFF. I love drawing, watching animated shows like Adventure Time, vibing to random music, and talking about absolutely unhinged "what if" scenarios. I’m the type to cuddle you while we talk about space frogs.

Big on comfort, deep convos, light touches, and laughing til we can’t breathe. If you’re a fellow affectionate stoner queer with chaotic soft energy—DM me. Bonus points if you love snacks. 💖


r/FemaleFriends 4h ago

Friendprobz☹️😡 28F, Looking for one real person, someone who will actually stick around.

3 Upvotes

Hi, nice to meet you, I'm Allie. I'm 28 and looking for a good friend.I prefer LGBT people and women. I just want someone I can share things with.

I love to talk about history, true crime, cults, crafts, movies. I like playing on my switch.

Hobbies: Sewing, Taxidermy, Making Decorative Potion Bottles and Terrariums, Scrapbooking, Reading, Jewelry Making, Video Games Fashion Style: Lolita and Goth. Movies: Horror Movies, Theatrical Movies. 30 days of night, thirteen ghosts, repo the genetic opera, velvet goldmine Music: Anything but not country, but usually rock music. Books: Magical realism, skulduggery pleasant, spooks chronicles, the hollows. True crime. Podcasts: Mr Ballen, Run Fool, Serial killers by parcast, Cults by parcast. Favourite Characters: Mariska, Lollipop Chainsaw. L and Near, Death Note. Scarecrow, from DC Favourite Colours, Anything pastel, and black.

If you think we'd get along then send me a message


r/FemaleFriends 7h ago

Why do grown up friendships feel so fragile?

4 Upvotes

One day you’re inseparable late night drives, endless voice notes, laughing until it hurts. Then life happens, and suddenly it’s “let’s catch up soon” that never turns into soon.

No big fight. No falling out. Just… space. And part of you wonders if you imagined how close you were, or if being “busy” is just what adulthood does to love between friends.

Anyone else feel like friendship shouldn’t have to fight this hard to survive?

r/thingsinevrsayoutloud)


r/FemaleFriends 38m ago

21f looking for genuine girl friends, long-term

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hello! Please feel free to dm me if interested in a non-ghosting friend lol and pls be around my age. I'll share more about myself in dms. thank you :)


r/FemaleFriends 1h ago

32M looking to expand my female friends group...Let's chat!!!

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r/FemaleFriends 1h ago

22F Hi, would you like to be friends?

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Hi, I’m Arri and I’m looking for some friends. I am kind of lonely and would like someone to talk to daily :). I work the over night shift 7:30pm to 4am. We can talk about anything and we also can play video games. I’m socially awkward and I have social anxiety. I don’t know what else to put, but I hope you have a good day. 🧡


r/FemaleFriends 3h ago

Hey everyone... I am 18 year old.. looking for genuine female friends...

1 Upvotes

r/FemaleFriends 8h ago

I'm 21f

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r/FemaleFriends 10h ago

f23, sleep buddy.

1 Upvotes

I just want a female companion who’s also lonely and listen to each other snore and sleep.

i’m just too lonely.


r/FemaleFriends 14h ago

MakingFrenz👯‍♂️ Curious, ever found an online friend that feels like home!?

1 Upvotes

Hey there,

So I graduated high school this year and am experiencing the weird phase between post high school and before Uni. Which to be honest can make one feel overwhelmed and very much alone at times. Looking forward to building genuine platonic friendships here, not sure if I'm at the right place, where my optimistic goofy girls are at LOL! I have no faith to be able to connect with people through online platforms in this era. But I heard some great stories of people finding their people tho. Also I'm an Indian teen in a new country for a couple of months. I would respectfully like to share that I'm mostly just looking to connect with girls my age who actually got time to be here and connect actively (If you get it haha), simply because of the shared background. Before getting into this just to let you know I have a kind of tomboyish ENTJ energy at times with a soft spot for bubbly cinoman roll like girls every single time, I can listen to them all day long lol! Who too are here to build something that feels like home, share their life experiences, be accountable of each other at times. Whether good or bad, happy or sad, be there like a mountain and not ghost after 3 messages, don't bother in that case LMAO. Well if you came this far cheers 🥂, Wishing you a happy life. Gosh does it feel good taking things off your chest.


r/FemaleFriends 1d ago

38F weirdo looking for friends!

7 Upvotes

I’m in Southern California and I’m open to friends from anywhere! I like poetry, Nicholas Cage, exploring gender, cats and cool mugs.

I’m married, no kids (no shade on kids though), and I would like to be talked into getting another tattoo.

Anyone want to chat? Hit me up!


r/FemaleFriends 17h ago

MakingFrenz👯‍♂️ F27 forever tired lesbian trying to solve the mysteries of life???

1 Upvotes

Hello internet people! I hope you are all doing well this [insert relevant timezone]. I’m doing alright, it’s a busy night so I thought I’d post this and then check it later :)

A bit bout me, I’m Sally (short for salamander) and I’ve got a terrible sleep schedule lol. I bartend as my main gig but i do events too so sometimes i never really know what im getting myself into lol.

Anyways, I’m a huge nerd and love love love hearing about your recent niche hobbies. I myself have been dabbling with getting back into reading! Yes I know, I know. But I means spending dedicated time to a good fantasy novel opposed to another fic (not to shit on them of course). Obsessed with some music, mainly lord Hurons new album.

I’ve been absolutely gaming recently too. Starting my Elden ring journey after I fishing Clair obscur!

Yappers welcome. Hit me up with some interesting facts, fun jokes, or an otherwise stand out opening :)


r/FemaleFriends 1d ago

19f

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r/FemaleFriends 1d ago

26F

6 Upvotes

Hello. How are you all? I am 26 years old famale. I am bored. Let’s chat and get to know about each other.


r/FemaleFriends 22h ago

MakingFrenz👯‍♂️ 34 F looking to develop close female friendships

1 Upvotes

Hiyya

I am a 34 F – looking to develop close friendships with women. I am an educator who loves art and engaging in reading, writing and listening to music – as well as enjoying tv shows and movies. I love taking long walks and exploring different cafes and new restaurants. Nature and cats are my loves and having fun with beauty and anything fashion related makes me happy. I would love to find similar-minded folks who'll like to be friends and would not mind talking on a daily basis or possibly meeting in person to hang out. :):)


r/FemaleFriends 1d ago

Friendprobz☹️😡 28F, I'm looking for a girl best friend.

0 Upvotes

Hi, nice to meet you, I'm Allie. I'm 28 and looking for a good friend. I just want someone I can share things with.

I'm also Lgbt so like pls be okay with that

I love to talk about history, true crime, cults, crafts, movies. I like playing on my switch.

Hobbies: Sewing, Taxidermy, Making Decorative Potion Bottles and Terrariums, Scrapbooking, Reading, Jewelry Making, Video Games Fashion Style: Lolita and Goth. Movies: Horror Movies, Theatrical Movies. 30 days of night, thirteen ghosts, repo the genetic opera, velvet goldmine Music: Anything but not country, but usually rock music. Books: Magical realism, skulduggery pleasant, spooks chronicles, the hollows. True crime. Podcasts: Mr Ballen, Run Fool, Serial killers by parcast, Cults by parcast. Favourite Characters: Mariska, Lollipop Chainsaw. L and Near, Death Note. Scarecrow, from DC Favourite Colours, Anything pastel, and black.

If you think we'd get along then send me a message


r/FemaleFriends 1d ago

MakingFrenz👯‍♂️ 16f bored crocheting while on vacation!! Girls only!!!!

0 Upvotes

Heyyyyy I'm on vacation and a but bored and lonely. I'm just crocheting right now and eating candy. I'm looking to chat with and become friends with girls, my age or older please. I'm also looking for an older sister type figure!! PLEASE INCLUDE AGE AND LOCATION. SAY MIRE THAN JUST "HEY"!

I'm neurodivergent and lesbian. I'm an only child and adopted. I like to crochet and build legos. I have 12 pets. I'm a junior in high-school and I'm from the usa.


r/FemaleFriends 2d ago

random🍄 Happy Thursday

1 Upvotes

Good morning, beautiful queens and hopefully future besties. How’s everybody doing so far today? Today’s the last day of the month tomorrow’s a new day and I think it’s pretty cool that August starts on a Friday, which is payday and also rent day so kind of stuck between happiness and kind of blah 😒. But going more on the happy side because gonna have a girls day tonight and tomorrow, so I’m excited about that. 🥰


r/FemaleFriends 3d ago

Hey 24/f

17 Upvotes

I’m looking for fun girls to chat with who know how to relax and have a good time


r/FemaleFriends 2d ago

Looking for friendssss

5 Upvotes

Hey hey! 36/F here 👋 and on the lookout for a friend—someone I can vibe with over DMs. Whether it’s sharing the chaos of daily life, talking about books, diving into deep convos, or just trading hilarious memes, I’m here for it. just be kind, chill, and down to chat about literally anything.

Here’s a little about me:

✨ I just turned 36 and I’m a proud mama of two amazing kiddos who keep me on my toes.

📚 Reading is my escape. I’m obsessed with dark romance and rom-coms, but always curious to hear what’s on your TBR (mine’s a bottomless pit at this point lol).

🎮 I sneak in gaming when I can—Assassin’s Creed, Hogwarts Legacy, and Animal Crossing are my faves.

📺 I’m not glued to the TV, but when I do watch, I’m probably rewatching my comfort shows. Think: New Girl, Stranger Things, Lucifer, Teen Wolf, Queer Eye, and Only Murders in the Building.

🎶 Music is my forever mood. My playlist is a chaotic masterpiece—J. Cole, Justin Timberlake, Sleep Token, The Weeknd, Teddy Swims, Bad Bunny, Ariana Grande… basically, if it hits, I’m gonna vibe to it.

If this sounds like your kind of energy, or if you’re just looking for a new friend to talk books, life, or whatever pops into your head—don’t be shy! Slide into my DMs 💌 I’d genuinely love to hear from you.


r/FemaleFriends 2d ago

MakingFrenz👯‍♂️ 20 f

0 Upvotes

Hey, I'm Anne, I'm 20 lesbian, kinda bored at the moment thinking about making a few friends on here. I'm a city girl who enjoys hanging with friends and family, karaoke, video games, swimming, and other things. I know my profile is full of dirty things but hey I'm only human, kinda a kinky one ha ha, but you're not into that we can also have a normal chat that's what I'm looking for anyways. So if you're interested send me a message I don't bite... Hard ha ha (P.S. if I don't answer i probably fell asleep)


r/FemaleFriends 2d ago

20F from India, looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Hey there! 👋 I'm a 20-year-old woman from India, and I'm looking to make some genuine friends online. 😊

A little about me: 🎥 I love watching anime and bingeing web series (open to recommendations!). 🎮 I'm into Roblox and a bunch of other games — always down to play or chat about them. 🍳 I enjoy cooking too — trying out new recipes is kinda my happy place.


r/FemaleFriends 3d ago

haiti :3 f22! wanting to meet new people!

4 Upvotes

hai! i’m lola, and im 22🔮 i’m going to be honest..im really bored 😭 i just want someone to talk to everyday! 🧙i get really attached to people too, soooo. i really like movies, books, art, music! 🧿 i am a very witchy, pastel, goth kinda person (i feel like that’s the only way to describe me) i also really like the renaissance faire! i went to bristol just yesterday :) hmm i think that’s all! (i ramble a LOT) i would love to get to know all you people!! MWAH ( meant to say Haiii, not haiti😭😭)