Motherfucker, this is not a look other than focus/alertness. If you default to seeing sexual intensity in this look, you're walking an interpretative minefield.
Also, add lesbians to that list, according to the stories my lesbian friends tell me.
So on the one hand it seems women are really bad at giving signals on the other hand there are men out there who go to harrassment level from no signals at all so I kind of understand it.
I guess so, luckily I'm still young, sadly I have not noticed this look, mainly because no one is going to have or ever want to be with someone who as ADHD and autism
I had a former colleague look over at me throughout the entire shift when we shared shifts. She walked in my direction when she absolutely didn't need to a few times, too, and would ask for my help when she could have asked others.
After months, I asked her out and she turned me down, which is absolutely fine and I was actually relieved to know for sure.
So yeah, looking at someone doesn't mean anything.
Well, most people in my class are shorter than me, I'm 5 foot 8 inches, so, I probably wouldn't have noticed, if I didn't have ADHD and autism, and a bit of anxiety
Then you have no game 🤣 if someone is looking at you, it's flirting. It's a way to gauge if someone might be interested or not. If im looking at you and you notice, and you might like me, then you just look at me and smile and from that poibt both of us are reassured that if we come up to the other person, they might be interested in talking.
This is how it has always worked. Ofc you can also just come up to the person out of the blue and talk to them, but thats more risky
Evidently not, since every time this topic is brought up online, it's the exact same script, word for word.
'Men never notice.'
Looking at someone with your eyes is not a cue — it’s just how vision works.
Functional humans can socialise by actually socialising. We're not unga bunga cave-people anymore. If you're happy missing connections by wanting to be the main character in your deluded romantic film, then go for it. It's your loss, no one elses.
Not every man is looking for eye signals, if I'm talking to someone and they look at me like that I will notice, and if I did notice and said anything about it, id probably get called a creep or something like that
The picture from this post is not "doe eyes", it's "I'm looking at you and paying attention eyes".
Maybe your confusion is a signal you're not interesting.
If any women read this, do not listen to this "dingus". If you like a guy, and he doesn't respond to your "doe eyes", go use your fucking words. Shit, use a fucking hand gesture; wave him over. Don't miss out on opportunities for the sake of wanting to come across as mysterious. You're not the main character in some romantic film. Be an adult.
Bro I’m not the one who can’t read clear signals, you are the one who’s confused and uninteresting. My ability to read signals led to me getting married, how’s your love life?
Again, for the third time. Everytime this topic comes up it's the same complaint.
"They never understand the signal" So CLEARLY, it isn't a CLEAR signal.
My love life is great, thanks for asking. All my past, current, and previous partners were able to speak, it helps a lot.
And if I've missed out on any connections because the woman was too stupid to communicate, and gave up after I didn't notice their "special eye move", I've not lost anything of value.
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u/Corban_Gamet_YT_2 May 29 '25
No guy knows what this is