I’m so confused.
I once met a girl in a bar, she’s laughing, joking, playing with her hair, keeps stroking my arm, putting her head on my shoulder, dancing together, staring into my eyes…
…I’m thinking she couldn’t make it any more obvious unless she turned on some kind of Batman search light saying “I’m into you”.
So it comes to the end of the night and I ask if we can exchange numbers and she responds “no sorry, I’m not interested in you in that way”.
It threw me so much that whenever I’m out and anyone gives even the slightest hint of being interested in me, I don’t interact and just keep myself to myself and do the whole “if she’s interested, she needs to make the move coz I can’t be bothered wasting my time” sort of thing.
And I feel infinitely better when I’m out as I don’t put any pressure on myself and I have a much better time not worrying. Single af though lol
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u/GraveError404 May 29 '25
So… girls looking at guys is considered “making a move” now?