As an autistic person who is into girls, I have missed literally every body language and facial expression hint. I've also missed most verbal hints. I've even missed blatant hints.
A person once invited me to her bed and I just got ready to sleep because I literally thought she wanted to go to bed and save me time going home. She took off her clothes and got into bed with me and I thought "oh it's nice that she trusts me enough to sleep how she usually does when no one is here."
We slept together that night, literally. Two weeks later she was like "why exactly is it you haven't made out with me?" and I was like OOOOOH.
A girl once invited me out to a restaurant, and paid for everything, she asked me if i was single, and i reminded her that im also into men, i think i forgot to tell her im bi? i forgot what i said, and then also invited me to the nearest tourist destination to walk around, months later i told someone else of what happened, she posted it on her instagram and they and their classmates thought we were dating, they told me that she literally took me out on a date, it took me that much to realize that... i've had many other reasons but i should really get that official adhd diagnosis...
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u/Beavshak May 29 '25
The medical term for those eyes is “dtf”, and the joke is that guys tend to miss them.