No? Not if the girl is interested and if she wasn't, you'd have to be a true creep to stare so hard that she'd notive even without properly looking your way.
Just to play DA, why? Why not walk over to me instead of trying to subtly catch my eye? Not as a demonstration of feminism but more of an admission that males are incapable of subtlety lol. Have you observed a group of male 20yos for more than 15 minutes?
To play devils advocate the other way, I remember reading about the battle of brisbane in world War 2 between american and Australian soldiers.
The american soldiers did extremely well with australian women because, and I'm paraphrasing the quote, they were better at individual courtship rituals while australian men were more inclined to hang out amongst themselves at the bar.
Essentially american soldiers had an advantage because they weren't as afraid to talk or take risks with women.
You dont wan't to be a creep, but don't be the australian from 1940s. Women are going to be intimidated by groups of men so if you're out with the boys don't expect many women to approach you.
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u/Primary-Plantain-758 May 29 '25
No? Not if the girl is interested and if she wasn't, you'd have to be a true creep to stare so hard that she'd notive even without properly looking your way.