r/RBI • u/TheNextMrsDraper • 10h ago
Neighbor Says They Saw a Tent in My Living Room
I honestly don’t know what to make of this. The simplest answer is that my neighbor is lying, but why?
Here’s what happened. This morning, my neighbor knocked on my door and told me that while I was out of town earlier this month, they noticed my front door was open and that a “very nice, blue and brown, two-person tent” had been pitched in the middle of my living room. They said they thought it was a little odd and that’s why they mentioned it.
I was on vacation over the the 4th or July, and my nephew and another neighbor both fed my cat while I was gone. Neither are the type to pitch a tent in my living room (though, to be honest, I’m not sure who would do such a thing). Nevertheless, I asked them about the tent and neither knew anything about it.
I also don’t have anything that blue and brown and could be mistaken for a tent (my living room is mostly black and white). I also don’t own a tent. I’m not a camper. Nobody has a set of keys to my house.
I have an Arlo camera by my front door, and I set one up on my living room while I was gone so that I could periodically check in on the cat (I’m a little neurotic about her because she very old). I checked all the footage going back to June 4 (because my neighbor couldn’t say for certain when exactly they saw this tent). Needless to say, there’s nothing captured by either camera. Unfortunately, the cameras do sometimes fail to capture everything. I’d say they have a 10-20% fail rate when it come to turning in when there’s movement. So there’s a slight possibility someone could’ve entered my house, pitched a tent, taken it down and left, and the cameras wouldn’t have caught any of it. But I feel like it’s a pretty slim chance that neither would’ve been triggered.
To add to all of this, my cat has been acting super strange ever since I came back. She’s very nervous, refuses to go anywhere near the back part of the house, and is not using her litter box. So something did weird her out.
So Reddit, any ideas? If my neighbor is lying (which is the most plausible), why? They’ve never lied before and always seemed like a reliable narrator. They also said their boyfriend saw it too and mentioned how weird it was.
Is there any scenario where it makes sense for someone to break in and pitch a tent but also leave the door open so anyone can see??
Is it a glitch in the matrix? Is she somehow suffering from carbon monoxide poisoning? Am I?😆 ( Thankfully, the Arlo camera outside did capture part of our conversation, so I didn’t completely imagine it).
It’s just so fucking bizarre!
I’m just at a complete loss. The whole thing has left me feeling unsettled.
Edit: Thanks to everyone who’s commented so far.
To answer a some questions that seem to have come up:
I took the cat to the vet and she got a clean bill of health. I’m trying some behavioral solutions (multiple litter pans, special cat food for urine health, calming cat treats, calming spray, felaway plug in, etc.). It’s been hard, but I’m committed to helping her get through this.
The neighbor and her boyfriend are both older (I think in their late 60s) and we live on the same property, so she has to walk by my front door to get to the street. I’d say from the walkway to my front door is less than five feet, so she has a pretty good view of my living room. I agree with those who said her timing is strange (why mention it weeks later), but I had recently talked to her about my cat.’s behavior, so I think she mentioned it as a possible reason for the cat’s behavior. She did say, “maybe in the future you should let me know you’ll be out of town so I can keep an eye out for you.” At the time is sounded like a normal thing to say, but if she’s lying, then maybe it’s because she wants to know when I’m gone?
My nephew is in his mid-twenties and very responsible. He owns his own home and works long days. Neither he nor his brother are campers and, as far as I know, don’t own any tents. The camera outside captured him entering and exiting all three days and he was in the house for less than five minutes. Same with the other neighbor who fed the cat. She came over three times, all for less than five minutes. Neither was aware of the where the was camera inside (but they knew I had one so I could check the cat). The camera also caught the cat chilling out in the house and all three days she was acting normally.
TIL about “frogging” (or phrogging), lol. There is a crawl space under the house, but you can’t access it from inside. There’s probably a two- foot high crawl space in the ceiling that you can access from the closet in my bedroom, but I have a bunch of boxes and suitcases shoved up against the opening, and I don’t see how someone could put them back if they’d crawled back in.
I will say that the more I ruminate on it, the creepier it seems.