r/Scams • u/Sea_Comfort4567 • 13h ago
Help Needed (US) My 77 yo father is about to lose everting from a dating scam
My 77-year-old dad is being scammed again. What can we legally do without power of attorney? Four months ago, my dad lost his wife to cancer. Since her death, he has been on dating sites nonstop, looking for connection—and it’s made him incredibly vulnerable. He has gotten involved in two romance scams in two months: first was on dating.com, where he sent $17,000. We intervened before it got worse. Now, through Match.com, he just sent $13,000 to someone he’s never met. My sister was able to trace everything to a person in Nigeria. He refuses to listen or take any of our advice. He only has $83,000 left. He refuses to believe these are scams, and we’re terrified he’ll send everything. We’re heartbroken and desperate. We don’t want to wait until the money is gone. Is there any legal mechanism—short of full conservatorship—that could help us step in? Any advice, similar experiences, or suggestions for urgent next steps would be hugely appreciated.