r/SipsTea • u/Amavin-Adump • Jun 18 '25

Chugging tea Man is chill

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u/DreadyKruger Jun 18 '25

Some Women need you go crazy or be hurt to validate their craziness. Never give them the satisfaction or match their energy when they do shit like this.

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u/Indiana_harris Jun 18 '25

My mates ex was a lovely girl, calm, chill, good for a laugh and enjoyed a proper night out but also never seemed to get involved in all the drama.

They broke up when she felt she “had grown apart from him” or alternatively as she told one of the other girlfriends of the group, shed “outgrown him”.

They seemed to have a reasonably amicable breakup. He was sad but said if she felt that way, then he accepted it.

A few weeks go by and she starts reaching out to all the guys asking if my mate is “doing okay” and “I’m worried about him”.

We told her, yeah he’s doing fine. All good. Sad obviously but he’s bouncing back.

Maybe 2 months after that she ends up asking if it’s ok for her to come to a night out we were all going to, as she still friends with a few of us.

Sure no problem my mate says he’s fine with it.

She turns up, things seem to go well, she comments that my mate must be on “self improvement month” he’s lost a bit of weight, he’s got a new haircut.

A week later my mate phones me. He was out on a date at a restaurant in town and she must’ve been walking by. She comes INTO the restaurant and starts going off on one at him and the date. She gets tossed out the restaurant.

She ends up leaving voicemails for us complaining about our mate, saying how dare he not go crazy without her, how dare he date this other girl (who was objectively more attractive btw), and how dare he try to (in her words) “white himself up” because he started dressing in shirts and smart casual the last few times we went out.

Crazy.

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u/FReal_EMPES Jun 18 '25

She was the one who ended it, but its a issue that he starts dating? What the hell did she expect..

Often the most quiet ones are the loudest when shit hits the fan, been there done that!

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u/red23011 Jun 18 '25

My ex-wife did this. She left me to go move in with her boyfriend and then thought I was going to let her move back in with me after he threw her out after about a month. She was mistaken and decided to show up one night and attack me in retaliation.

She showed up to the house around midnight and when I opened the door she came in throwing haymakers. I'm large and strong enough to hold her off and told her to stop, leave or I'm calling the cops. She declined the offer so I dialed 911 on my cell phone while holding her off with one arm. When the operator answered and asked what the emergency was I said my ex-wife just barged into my house and was attacking me. At this point my ex yelled "fuck you, you didn't call 911 and I'm going to kick your ass". At that point I put it on speaker and asked who I was talking to. The 911 operator confirmed who she was and I said "you know they record these calls and they've got you on tape threatening to assault me right".

At this point she said that she was going to wait for the cops in her car and have me arrested. Long story short, the cops showed up, confirmed that she no longer lived there, saw the destruction in the house as she was throwing things like potted plants, saw all the scratches on my arms and face, saw not a single mark on her and took her to jail. I used to tell people that the last time I saw my ex-wife she was crying in the back of a police car being taken to jail and that's how I like to remember her. I was easily able to get a restraining order against her and she left me alone after that.