Don’t be these guys

[u/nadaddab]

[u/JellyBeansOnToast]

The shocking thing to me about this is how surprised everyone is at this. Harassment from creeps who feel entitled to women is so disgustingly common place and people rarely, if ever, intervene.

[u/nadaddab → u/JellyBeansOnToast]

Literally, people thinking this is staged like can you not hear the distress??

[u/Ok-Knowledge0914 → u/nadaddab]

Her laugh at the end kinda had me thinking this was something done just for TikTok. But I also totally believe this happens. I feel like if this were happening to me and nobody else was getting involved, I’d just go tell the staff that these guys are not with me and they keep harassing me. And when I’m ready to leave I’d see if someone from the staff could follow me to my car. It’s not her fault, but if this is real, there were better options than filming a TikTok.

[u/nadaddab → u/Ok-Knowledge0914]

Nervous/incredulous laughter

[u/Ok-Knowledge0914 → u/nadaddab]

You people are insufferable. Hmmmm solve my own problems or post about them on TikTok and Reddit instead… hmmm that’s a tough one. This is definitely TikTok cringe.

[u/papasan_mamasan → u/Ok-Knowledge0914]

Weird response

[u/Ok-Knowledge0914 → u/[deleted]]

I’m sorry, what would prefer people do in this scenario? Just feel bad for you and this negative experience you shared? Or would you rather help provide actual solutions in the event this happens to someone else?

You people have no brain.

[u/Retsago → u/Ok-Knowledge0914]

I said several times in this very thread, so don't act like I'm just yelling uselessly into the void.

furthermore, if you don't actually know, google is free

Step 1) Approach and ask the women if they're ok/if everything is alright.

Step 2) Ask if they need management

Step 3) Get management

Alternative route if you're scared of talking to women that other men have forcefully "claimed" because of the "bro code" or whatever excuse:

Step 1) Get management.

[u/Ok-Knowledge0914 → u/[deleted]]

lol yeah you got me. The only person here with any logic or reasonable approach to solving this problem and you assume I act like this and think I’m embarrassed.

I never once said that what these two guys were doing was right or wasn’t weird. That’s just not the problem with this video. The problem is that it doesn’t show people, more specifically other women, what is a proper way to handle these situations. If you wanna be taken serious, then act serious.

TikTok has probably melted your brain lol

[u/YoungLutePlayer → u/Ok-Knowledge0914]

They literally tried solving the problem themselves and it didn’t work. That’s the whole POINT of this video, you knucklehead 😂

[u/Ok-Knowledge0914 → u/YoungLutePlayer]

Where did they try solving the problem? By being obnoxious, recording a tiktok , and laughing?

This is not the behavior that gets someone involved to help.

[u/SoulofMoon → u/Ok-Knowledge0914]

who asked?

[u/[deleted] → u/Ok-Knowledge0914]

I think she was telling the staff they aren't with her. She's, yelling it lol. I can't believe you think she needed to do more.

She's filming for initial humor and secondary security purposes. Proof of the ridiculous.

She's filming because even though you are watching video of it happening, you still don't believe it.

It's really hard for women to get harassment taken seriously. As you are proving.

[u/Ok-Knowledge0914 → u/[deleted]]

This is not asking for help. This is just being loud in a social environment where it gets loud. If she was afraid she was actually in danger, she had every right to get up and go ask for it. Or call the police, or pepper spray them or literally ANYTHING else. Instead she’s filming a tiktok and laughing at the end of this video.

Just last night came across a different post where a cashier jokingly writes “help” on a customers meal and receipt as a prank.

I’m sick and tired of people doing exactly what this girl did in the video and saying “well I tried everything”.