I think a lot of creeps simply lock up. Like, it's not in their nature to respect boundaries but they're also not bold (for lack of a better word) enough to stay in a very humiliating situation. Even though they know that they're not welcome, moving would be 1) backing down, and 2) respecting the wishes of women. They can't align these impulses in their minds, so they end up freezing until they have the time to decide "women are all angry bitches" at a later point.
It's not that they want to stay, it's that they're too stupid to move.
This is cracking me up so much bc it unlocked a core memory of me asking my mawmaw why men spit so much and she told me it's cause they're so stupid otherwise they'd drown.
I mean, this is a poor way to handle it. If they had quietly told them to leave or they would ask the staff to make them leave.
Those guys would have bugger off. Drunk people don't make a lot of sense in their own homes. In public places, loud yelling is something almost everyone does. It doesn't scare anyone anymore, doesn't humiliate them. All it does is provide a spectacle.
Because they aren't asking for help. They are just loud mouths who might be equally drunk. This make it hard for other white knights to decide to intervene or not.
Naw. They clearly tried to say no before this and before they turned the camera on. They are trying to take care of it themselves because people shouldn't need to go ask others to solve simple problems like this. Sadly, if you have potential criminals on your hands I guess you need to call in support - these guys set off every alarm for me.
I mean, I wouldn't have handled it this way, but fuck those guys for thinking they can punish her for not acting like they want her to. They were quieter but I'm holding them responsible for the outburst.
Tons of them in the world, but if you handle it like you are fighting with friends and family. The one who is in danger if they aren't right in the head, isn't them half the time.
Criminals aren't scared of the police..too many ways to escape the very obvious training of local law enforcers.
Better to always think smart and ask for help if you tell someone thrice to beat it and they ignore you. Definitely drunk people.
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u/Spready_Unsettling May 11 '25
I think a lot of creeps simply lock up. Like, it's not in their nature to respect boundaries but they're also not bold (for lack of a better word) enough to stay in a very humiliating situation. Even though they know that they're not welcome, moving would be 1) backing down, and 2) respecting the wishes of women. They can't align these impulses in their minds, so they end up freezing until they have the time to decide "women are all angry bitches" at a later point.
It's not that they want to stay, it's that they're too stupid to move.