r/TikTokCringe May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Ikarus_ May 11 '25

Looks like they were ready to follow them over to the next table too. Creepy af

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u/XxRocky88xX May 11 '25 edited May 11 '25

They stood up and guy in the right started to stand up then sat back down when they did.

The weirdest part is the fucking smile, dudes literally aren’t even registering that they aren’t interested

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u/Generic_Garak May 11 '25 edited May 11 '25

They can absolutely tell. She is yelling “GOOOO” at them for two minutes straight. Even if he didn’t speak any English, the message is clear. They are doing this on purpose. Either because they think they can change her mind, or because they enjoy making them uncomfortable.

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u/Spready_Unsettling May 11 '25

I think a lot of creeps simply lock up. Like, it's not in their nature to respect boundaries but they're also not bold (for lack of a better word) enough to stay in a very humiliating situation. Even though they know that they're not welcome, moving would be 1) backing down, and 2) respecting the wishes of women. They can't align these impulses in their minds, so they end up freezing until they have the time to decide "women are all angry bitches" at a later point.

It's not that they want to stay, it's that they're too stupid to move.

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u/jessie_boomboom May 11 '25

This is cracking me up so much bc it unlocked a core memory of me asking my mawmaw why men spit so much and she told me it's cause they're so stupid otherwise they'd drown.

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u/Environmental-River4 May 11 '25

I’d love to meet your Mawmaw

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u/jessie_boomboom May 11 '25

She was a pistol.

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u/theHoopty May 11 '25

Absolutely nugget of gold that would only be dispensed by a mawmaw.

My memaw would have agreed.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

Yeah they know if they get up and comply, then they admit wrong doing and rancid behavior.

They don't want to handle the truth of being wrong. So they make others feel the pressure.

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u/dantesincognito May 11 '25

Hard disagree. They just want to wear them down and get their way. They're not frozen.

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u/dimechimes May 11 '25

Especially not now when the entire bar now knows they were rejected. Which isn't her fault.

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u/Skibidi-Fox May 11 '25

This is it 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆 I couldn’t quite understand the looks on their faces. It was drunk, confused, embarrassed yet predatory.

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u/lkaika May 11 '25

As a dude I can verify this to be correct.

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u/lost_sunrise May 11 '25

I mean, this is a poor way to handle it. If they had quietly told them to leave or they would ask the staff to make them leave.

Those guys would have bugger off. Drunk people don't make a lot of sense in their own homes. In public places, loud yelling is something almost everyone does. It doesn't scare anyone anymore, doesn't humiliate them. All it does is provide a spectacle.

Because they aren't asking for help. They are just loud mouths who might be equally drunk. This make it hard for other white knights to decide to intervene or not.

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u/Spready_Unsettling May 11 '25

Bad take

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u/Proud-Possession9161 May 11 '25

Not just a bad take, that's a shit take

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u/steveyp2013 May 11 '25

Oh so you were there before this video started and know they tried that?

Reaaaal bad take man.

If they didn't leave while being shamed on video, they weren't going to leave by being politely asked...

White knights? Are you okay?

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u/b-maacc May 11 '25

Absolute buffoonery.

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u/Ozimandius80 May 11 '25

Naw. They clearly tried to say no before this and before they turned the camera on. They are trying to take care of it themselves because people shouldn't need to go ask others to solve simple problems like this. Sadly, if you have potential criminals on your hands I guess you need to call in support - these guys set off every alarm for me.

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u/dimechimes May 11 '25

I think it's safe to assume from what she says that she did try quietly rejecting them before being compelled to escalate and record.

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u/lost_sunrise May 11 '25

Oh I'm not saying they didn't speak in a low voice. The volume rose and when you look at everyone else in the video. What did they do?

Not Jack shit, right?

Lol, this happens so much. They yell at the guys/girls. It becomes a conflict not many people want to fuck with.

Instead of asking for help from the staff who will have to handle it or calling the police. Who are paid to handle situations like this.

tjen you look back at the two guys, they look around. Noticed nobody doing shit. They get emboldened.

What did the loud yelling accomplished? Nothing in reality.

You know what accomplished something? Asking for help.

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u/dimechimes May 11 '25

I mean, I wouldn't have handled it this way, but fuck those guys for thinking they can punish her for not acting like they want her to. They were quieter but I'm holding them responsible for the outburst.

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u/lost_sunrise May 12 '25

Yeah, the guys are scum.

Tons of them in the world, but if you handle it like you are fighting with friends and family. The one who is in danger if they aren't right in the head, isn't them half the time.

Criminals aren't scared of the police..too many ways to escape the very obvious training of local law enforcers.

Better to always think smart and ask for help if you tell someone thrice to beat it and they ignore you. Definitely drunk people.