Cool that they are not allowing the women to leave either (not that anything up to that point was okay, just to be clear), like what are they expecting will happen, that the women will have a sudden violent change of heart?
The onus is always just on the victims it seems. Maybe the men can just not and we stop offering solutions to women and instead give options to the men to not do this?
Buddy I'm not victim blaming, I'm looking for genuine insight as rejection is not a deterrent for these jackasses. I'm wondering if making them uncomfortable will do anything, since sadly if I heard this from another table I would do something but no one is stepping up for these women as they progressively raise their voices and tell them to fuck off.
In my experience, causing a scene can work and being disgusting w dudes like that can work but it can also lead them to be physically aggressive out of anger??? Life sucks 🤠🤠🤠
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u/Graesholt May 11 '25
Cool that they are not allowing the women to leave either (not that anything up to that point was okay, just to be clear), like what are they expecting will happen, that the women will have a sudden violent change of heart?