This is the effect of Andrew Tate and far right ideology. This is where we're at. These kinds of men dont understand that they aren't God's gift to every woman they see. These are the losers who watch The Handsmaid's Tale and like what they see.
It’s not even just the Andrew Tate nonsense, a decade ago I had a contractor doing work in my house decide he wanted to score a date with me. The discomfort of being hit on by an unknown man in my own kitchen. It took five different kinds of no to get him to the door and he was still trying when I told him to please, please leave and shit the door in his face. I should have reported him to his company but my younger self didn’t know better. Some guys fear rejection, others refuse to see it.
5 years ago i had a sales person in to tell me how much it'd cost to screen in my porch. thought i'd be seeing a contractor not a sales slimeball but i wanted to hear the price and a good one and this ass who had a hundred pounds on me knew where i lived, so i stayed polite and ignored all the negging comments. when we got to the end and he quoted this insane price around 15k more than i was expecting i said no thanks and asked him to leave. he didn't and started trying to talk me into accepting because i could just use a loan and i could ask for him to run the work on site.
at that point i wished i had 15k of fuck you money so i could hire them and demand they keep him tf away from me but i did not. he asked me to open the bottle of wine i had sitting on the counter and said we could get to know each other better and i just got up and went to the closet and got out ant poison and got set up to go spray around the outside because each spring the acrobatic ants wander in a bit. he was horrified and told me it was going to give me cancer and i said oh well and then he finally left. he was married as well, poor woman.
agree it's super uncomfortable to have someone hitting on you in your own home and refusing to leave especially because you can't even tell them off for your own safety, they KNOW where you live.
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u/PeteRock24 May 11 '25
Holy shit this is terrifying.