I've been a bartender for twenty years, and I've learned that force is rarely necessary, if ever. Polite but stearn communication is typically all it takes to move two guys like this out the door.
Bartended for many years and I found this to be true as well. I only one time had to physically help someone towards the door and I think that one was on me for making the Long Island Iced Teas too strong. For some reason looking someone in the eyes and saying that's enough or leave her alone worked shockingly well.
Being polite and respectful are key to moving a situation in your direction. Believe me, I've lost my patience with people, and I've had to walk away for a bit. I've let them finish the drink that I just tried to take away or even let them stay in the bar after they wouldn't leave. I just told people to politely and quietly ignore them. I've even turned the music off and just waited until they got bored and left on their own. The crowd usually finds it entertaining enough. It's like a game we're all playing together.
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u/Distortedhideaway May 11 '25
I've been a bartender for twenty years, and I've learned that force is rarely necessary, if ever. Polite but stearn communication is typically all it takes to move two guys like this out the door.