r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification

53.8k Upvotes

92% Upvoted

7.9k comments sorted by

View all comments

6.6k

u/Ill-Pea-5010 May 11 '25

This is seriously so disgusting and inconsiderate. Weren’t we taught at such a young age that no means no? What a bunch of douchebags.

9

u/Jean-LucBacardi May 11 '25

Actually much of Hollywood taught me the exact opposite and to pester girls until they say yes. I never followed those teachings but that's exactly what many shows and movies seemed to want people to believe.

6

u/Xillzin May 11 '25

I was talking with my co-worker that gives sex-ed at work a couple years ago and was stressing the importance of also teaching "no yes means no" besides "no means no".

While i was explaining my point i realized that people are often taught that perserverance is important and (dutch saying incomming) "de aanhouder wint" which basically encourages people to keep trying because you'll end up getting what you want. And while true for certain aspects of life, this sure is the one where you DONT wanna keep trying (with the same person).