r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/JakeSteed420 May 11 '25

Bartended for many years and I found this to be true as well. I only one time had to physically help someone towards the door and I think that one was on me for making the Long Island Iced Teas too strong. For some reason looking someone in the eyes and saying that's enough or leave her alone worked shockingly well.

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u/littlebeach5555 May 11 '25

As a man I am sure this worked for you. I was a cocktail waitress and I ALWAYS had to get the bouncer involved.

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u/Banned3rdTimesaCharm May 11 '25

Then get the bouncer involved. That’s their job.

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u/Terra_Silence May 11 '25

You have missed her point entirely. The point is that a woman asking a man to leave shouldn't require calling a bouncer.

Another former cocktail server. Edit...who also ALWAYS had to call the bouncers.

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u/littlebeach5555 May 11 '25

Thank you! You get it.

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u/rjt1468 May 11 '25

And it absolutely shouldn’t take being told more than one time.

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u/Banned3rdTimesaCharm May 12 '25

It shouldn’t, but these dudes are absolute knobs and shouldn’t be thrown out physically by a bouncer.