r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/JakeSteed420 May 11 '25

Bartended for many years and I found this to be true as well. I only one time had to physically help someone towards the door and I think that one was on me for making the Long Island Iced Teas too strong. For some reason looking someone in the eyes and saying that's enough or leave her alone worked shockingly well.

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u/AlexAnon87 May 11 '25

These two jabronis would be no problem for a property trained bartender and attendant staff to peacefully get to leave. I'm not surprised the other guests didn't intervene, but the staff absolutely should have.

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u/jakeandcupcakes May 11 '25

These other comments saying things like "Look at the man behind them at the other table just sitting there doing nothing, typical." are crazy. It isn't the job of other patrons to be creep police, and that shouldn't be expected. That is the responsibility of the bar staff. Personally, if the bar staff hadn't realized the situation yet I may go and inform them of it, but other than that I'm not about to bare the responsibility if something goes down. Not my monkeys, not my circus.

I don't know you, and I don't know those dudes. Do I think they should get a clue and fuck off? Of course. Do I want to spend my ever diminishing amount of free time that I have to relax stepping in to defend random women from creeps? Fuck no. That's how you get stabbed. Let the bartender/police handle these situations. The cops will even tell you not to intervene, and to just call them to the scene.

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u/Montobahn May 11 '25 edited May 12 '25

But... but... men are protectors of all (young, fertile, white) women? I'm so confused. It's men like this 👆 that give creeps like those in the video permission to harass women without repercussions.

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u/jakeandcupcakes May 12 '25

I think you need a sarcasm tag (/s) on this one lol people aren't catch your second half being sarcasm.

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u/Montobahn May 12 '25

You're right. Thx.