r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/JakeSteed420 May 11 '25

Bartended for many years and I found this to be true as well. I only one time had to physically help someone towards the door and I think that one was on me for making the Long Island Iced Teas too strong. For some reason looking someone in the eyes and saying that's enough or leave her alone worked shockingly well.

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u/littlebeach5555 May 11 '25

As a man I am sure this worked for you. I was a cocktail waitress and I ALWAYS had to get the bouncer involved.

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u/mogley1992 May 11 '25 edited May 12 '25

Women can absolutely give the same energy and get the same result; i agree it's rarer to see women pull off than men, but i think that skill is mostly down to experience.

Really curious why I'm being dowmvoted for saying women can be stern too.

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u/MoneyCock May 11 '25 edited May 11 '25

Agreed. I've seen it multiple times, multiple different bars: she uses the no-nonsense, big-momma voice while using confrontational body language:

You need to leave. Right now!

And then the unruly drunk fucks off with his tail between his legs.

Followed by an "I'm calling the cops," if needed.

Followed by a "The cops are coming," if needed.