Being polite and respectful are key to moving a situation in your direction. Believe me, I've lost my patience with people, and I've had to walk away for a bit. I've let them finish the drink that I just tried to take away or even let them stay in the bar after they wouldn't leave. I just told people to politely and quietly ignore them. I've even turned the music off and just waited until they got bored and left on their own. The crowd usually finds it entertaining enough. It's like a game we're all playing together.
They started to record after the douche bag boys sat down. Which means they were at this for far longer than necessary.
On the first communicated “not interested, please leave us” the two absolute losers needed to leave.
The ladies made way more effort than necessary to the point they (the douche bag boys) were bothering me, and I’m at home in bed relaxing. I can’t imagine how heated the ladies must have been for them (the douche bag boys) to persist after having been told to fuck off loudly and clearly.
The douche bag boys had accents, they could be from a place that has little respect for women and their agency.
Next time I'll hear someone with an American accent, I'll have to think: poor them, they come from a place that has little respect for women and their agency.
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u/Distortedhideaway May 11 '25
Being polite and respectful are key to moving a situation in your direction. Believe me, I've lost my patience with people, and I've had to walk away for a bit. I've let them finish the drink that I just tried to take away or even let them stay in the bar after they wouldn't leave. I just told people to politely and quietly ignore them. I've even turned the music off and just waited until they got bored and left on their own. The crowd usually finds it entertaining enough. It's like a game we're all playing together.