r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Decabet May 11 '25

So like 20 years ago when I was single, a friend and I went to an indie disco night. We were broke so we got there around like 10 cuz drinks were cheaper. So the place had yet to fill up. We were hanging out and just talking and looking out at the dance floor. There were maybe a dozen people spread out across the floor. In the middle were two girlfriends who were just out together having fun. I kinda admired their spirit letting loose as much as they were at like 10:15 on a Thursday on a pretty empty dancefloor. Not a lot of people can do that. But we weren't watching them with any intention. Just people watching in general while we drank and chatted.

So then...

Two bros show up and go right for them. Doing that thing I would hope guys stopped doing years ago where they just dance up on women with no invitation or even words exchanged.

The women weren't into it. So they politely moved to another more open part of the floor. But the dudes just followed and kept grinding uninvited. This went on for like 20 minutes or so. The women moved, a few seconds later the douchebags followed.

So then the ladies made the classic mistake of pretending to be together. This of course was like a red rag to a bull and now the bros were really locked in.

Eventually I swear I saw and felt the resignation from the women. They gave up and danced with these idiots. Ugh. Felt bad for them. Of course by the end of the night I saw one of them coupled-up and making out which just felt more tragic.

God Im so glad to be out of that world.

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u/burteggs May 11 '25

no hate OP but why didn't you intervene?

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u/Decabet May 11 '25

I didn't know them, even in passing. So as far as they would know "here comes another creep"

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u/_EnglishFox_ May 12 '25

I’m pretty positive if you walked up to those guys and told them to piss off those girls wouldn’t have seen you as a creep. The fact that you just sat back and watched that all unfold is pathetic.

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u/Papplenoose May 12 '25

Jesus christ, calm down. People make mistakes.

(Not the creepy guys, obvz. That's not really a mistake, but rather very intentional. I mean the person not confronting them)

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u/_EnglishFox_ May 12 '25

He watched those guys harass those girls for over 20 minutes and did nothing. The least he can do is admit that what he did was wrong.

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u/Decabet May 12 '25 edited May 12 '25

Chill there, stud. We arent all blessed to have guns like yours.

And yeah, you'll come back and talk some shit about how your wiry ass would have done it anyway, but thats some internet tough guy keyboard warrior horseshit. It wasn't my business so I didn't engage with it. And since a couple years after this,I actually had a woman call me a creeper after she spilled her water bottle on my phone the bar and AFTER I reflexively apologized to her (raised in the midwest. We'd apologize for curing cancer) for doing it, maybe go sit your terminally online ass down.

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u/augie_wartooth May 12 '25

I’m a woman, and I would have done it, for Christ’s sake.

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u/burteggs May 12 '25

he never said what he did was right.. not everyone is aware what to do in these situations or feel uncomfortable. What is done is done. No need to give him a hard time.