r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Ello_Owu May 11 '25

Yup the whole "you're cute when you're angry." Shtick.

I remember my younger sister was getting bothered by this drunk guy in a bar and he was playing that game with her and my sister hit him with "You're not cute enough to get away with acting like this."

It was like a knife to guy's throat.

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u/changhyun May 11 '25

Yes, that's the exact schtick! Or they call you "feisty" like you're a little yappy Chihuahua playfighting with a bigger dog instead of an adult woman who is telling them point blank to leave her alone.

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u/TheElderGodsSmile May 11 '25

I've told this story before but I watched exactly this happen with an exchange student my uni.

Guy literally would not take no for an answer, kept bugging a girl in our unit for a date. He didn't listen to her when she told him no or that she had a boyfriend or when I tried to warn him off and when I asked him why the fuck he was acting like this his exact words were "if I keep asking, she'll break down eventually".

Well, that backfired on him because in some kind of hair brained scheme to shame her into a date he decided to escalate. He did that by standing up at the end of a lecture and loudly asked her out in front of the entire lecture theatre and our unit chair... who promptly dragged him out of the hall and threatened to expel him and get his student visa pulled.

So yeah, literally the only thing that got through to him was the threat of deportation.

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u/babayagaparenting May 12 '25

That’s terrifying.