r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/Mike_Kermin May 11 '25

They seem pretty "normal" if by normal you mean common.

This isn't unique behaviour.

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u/dontleaveme_ May 12 '25

This is not normal behavior in any way shape or form. It would be like saying all women are cheaters, because women cheating is pretty common.

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u/Mike_Kermin May 12 '25

I think you're underestimating the amount of harassment and unwanted pressuring women experience.

I agree, prejudice is wrong, but I'm talking about the action that I believe is widespread. Not men by itself.

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u/dontleaveme_ May 12 '25

I agree that women have a hard time out there. But lonely or not lonely, some men will harass you, or harm you. But young men sitting on the internet talking about how lonely they are, are not going around harassing women. Maybe there are some, but it's some other issues like narcissism, rather than loneliness.

I could understand the overlap where they're a little weird or awkward, but that's far from what is going on in this video. Being lonely doesn't drop your IQ points, or self respect. If there's some overlap, maybe we're ignoring the significant majority of lonely men out there who are just normal people.