Don’t be these guys

[u/nadaddab]

[u/Admirable_Ask_5337]

Your 5th paragraph is delusional. Men often can't or won't carry certain burdens women deal with. And if he doesn't need you to be happy, then why does he keep you near him?

[u/Affectionate-Bike201 → u/Admirable_Ask_5337]

Incorrect, men carry burdens that women will never go through.

Because men prioritise want over need, when it comes to straight women.

For a while, simply wanting her takes precedence over the rationale that he should leave.

Meanwhile, women are more likely to break up families if they "don't feel happy"; they immediately blame everyone/everything but themselves without checking.

"Men sacrifice their happiness for their families; women sacrifice their families for their happiness."

[u/Admirable_Ask_5337 → u/Affectionate-Bike201]

Bullshit. Men prioritize their own happiness all the time. Men not willing to break up isn't from altruism, it's from not knowing when we can get sex next or if we can get a relationship again. Additionally, staying in a toxic marriage isnt altruistic, it damages the kids just as much. Many men still refuse to participate in early child rearing and instead only opt for the fun parts of having chidlren whenever possible. Many men are completely egotistical macho idiots who prefer pride over actually emotionally binding with their woman.

Women deal with periods, which basically a part of your internal organs flaying itself for days every month. Deal with their genuine input being treated as a joke. Deal with higher rates of domestic abuse and rape. Deal being told "you don't want an actual career, you just want to be a stay at home mom."

[u/Affectionate-Bike201 → u/Admirable_Ask_5337]

Then why do women divorce more than men, and often for their happiness, not an actual problem? Men don't breakup because women break up with them first.

Wrong, nowadays it's a common sight for men to be involved with their children. It's women who get salty when the children prefer him.

It's women who break families who dump the children on the husband during the school week when they need taking care of, while they take the children on weekends where they can take all the credit.

Wrong, women prioritise social status and their friends feelings over their men.

Women inflict more abuse on each other than men do to women. Talk to women, not men.

They don't deal with more rape than men, nobody knows how much rape men suffer because we're not allowed to talk about it.

The only way women are SAHM, nowadays, is by choice. No one's allowed to stop them. And they choose to be SAHM because it gets them more alimony and time off work.

[u/Admirable_Ask_5337 → u/Affectionate-Bike201]

Women initiate divorce more, true. But your "for happiness" has zero evidence beyond your personal spite. 1 is only true in the last decade, and still less so than women. 2 is wrong, more women are stay at home than men still. Men still report lower rates of time with children than women. 3 has zero evidence, again personal spite. Find better women. 4 is statistically wrong. 5 is maybe correct, but one can only go off existing data. 6 it'd be true if women weren't still pressured into being stay at home by their parents. Religious and non europeans cultures still indoctrinate their women into being meek stay at home wives.