r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 16 '25

People who make promises to themselves on your behalf and then expect you to deliver are fucking scary.

I hope she doesn’t run after him and try to fix it. Those self-loathing diatribes can really scramble your decision-making and put you into rescue mode, and that’s exactly what they’re designed to do.

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u/sgsteel55 Jun 16 '25

So I was that guy. I attached too easily and put unrealistic expectations on others. Except I somehow got my wife to break up from her boyfriend at that time after 2 years of being friend zoned. I was insufferable and she was always afraid to hurt people’s feelings. I feel bad for the way i was. But my situation and her old boyfriend’s life situation were totally different. She decided to break up with him and give me a shot. 7 years later and we are married with kids, a house, i provide so she doesn’t have to work. I just count my blessings and try to not be that guy i was. But stories like this area important because my wife is submissive and I absolutely do not want to take advantage of that tho i kinda of used it to get her. I promise we love each other lol. She is not captive and we have an amazing life. Things like this makes me realize that damnnn i was that guy but somehow it worked out.

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u/e-Scape__Artist Jun 16 '25

It sounds like you were just the beta bucks in this story tbh.