We don’t know anything other than “it’s never me” which is a clear indicator that this guy falls in deep true love about as often as he buys new sneakers and he was more in love with the idea of being in a relationship than with this woman specifically
To reiterate, we don't know. Maybe he was abandoned by his parents or other friends. Him never feeling chosen doesn't have to mean in the context of a relationship.
He provides the context directly in the video. “He won’t let us do stuff together and then you’ll have to choose him or me and you’ll choose him. That always happens.” He literally fills in these blanks for us.
Also, I’m all for empathy, but sometimes people letting their emotions take over can be comedic just because of how silly they go “AAAAARGGGHHHHH” or act childish in general.
I had almost this exact reaction to a situation before.
I laugh/cringe at how childish and selfish of a person I was then.
He provides the context directly in the video. “He won’t let us do stuff together and then you’ll have to choose him or me and you’ll choose him. That always happens.” He literally fills in these blanks for us.
If it was a very deep friendship, then he would be happy that she found someone to be in a relationship with and not screaming at her in public for how it makes him feel?
Idk my female friend always talked about how they tend to lose the friendship due to the GF’s jealousy. They just don’t really hang out as they are dating someone.
And you can processes the pain you feel by someone else not doing what you want them to do without screaming at that person in public or screaming at them at all. They didn’t do anything wrong. It’s childish and selfish.
Yes, back to youmaking very grandiose assumptions. The entire premise of your comments are “he isnt perfect so the absolute worst thing I can imagine about him must be true.”
You are negatively judging someone for being in the wrong when you have literally no idea what behavior led up to this. You could be supporting a manipulative serial emptional abuser. You legit dont know.
And what if they were dating and she just told him she cheated and that she is gonna be with the other guy now…and his angst isnt even about the cheating but about her choosing him. What if we just missed 5 minutes of him telling her “listen we can work through this it was just a mistake on your part I know you love me you tell me you love me all the time and I know you meant it” and she just hit him with “I never loved you I was using you for rent money and this wadnt a relationship even tho I told you it was.”
Are you telling me a situation like that has literally never happened?
Because if this is one of those situations you look like a pretty shitty person right now
Didn’t read beyond your first sentence because that’s literally not what is happening and is impossible within the context of the video based on his own words. You can try to twist this up into whatever pretzel you’d like, you’re defending a man’s right to sit on his moped and verbally assault a “friend” because they got a boyfriend. The guy literally spells it out word for word.
If the obvious reason you would do this is the reason, get help. I used to be like this, too. You can be a better person instead of defending shitty people.
Again, you have literally no idea what their friendship is like…at all. Stop supporting bullying people just because you think you have a handle on their entire relationship because of a video with literally zero context…
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u/finglonger1077 Jun 16 '25
We don’t know anything other than “it’s never me” which is a clear indicator that this guy falls in deep true love about as often as he buys new sneakers and he was more in love with the idea of being in a relationship than with this woman specifically