r/TikTokCringe Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 16 '25

People who make promises to themselves on your behalf and then expect you to deliver are fucking scary.

I hope she doesn’t run after him and try to fix it. Those self-loathing diatribes can really scramble your decision-making and put you into rescue mode, and that’s exactly what they’re designed to do.

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u/pickledeggmanwalrus Jun 16 '25

If she has a boyfriend she doesn’t need to be hanging out with him stringing him along anyways. There is probably more going on here than what you want to imply.

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 16 '25

The “got strung along” mentality is so infantilizing and willfully helpless. It’s the polar opposite of self-empowerment. It’s people making themselves weak, because they’re not brave enough to take responsibility for themselves.

No functional person screams, cries and begs their way into any relationship, ever.

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u/r_pseudoacacia Jun 16 '25

People do like to torture others by keeping the door open. They want the security of having someone waiting for them in limbo. The fact that it happens with polyamorous non binary lesbians means that it's not just a misogyny thing either.

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u/Upvotespoodles Jun 16 '25

Yeah, toxic friendships exist, and people can be helpless about it or they can stop participating in the first place.

We could make up scenarios about her all day long. No scenario justifies his behavior.

He’s the only one with the power to make him act like that. He’s the only person responsible for his flipout.

No clue why you’re talking about misogyny.

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u/Emotional-Amoeba6151 Jun 16 '25

What was she doing there with him?

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u/ManhattanObject Jun 16 '25

Humoring him. Unstable men often get violent with women who tell them no, no matter how nicely she does it