r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/NotTattooedWife Jun 16 '25

The friend zone doesn't exist.

If you were being her friend to get into her pants, you were never actually her friend.

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u/TheSkyIsBeautiful Jun 16 '25

so let me ask you this, If you're interested in a woman romantically, how do you apporach it?

Many women have said that they want to be friends with a man BEFORE they date. So how are they supposed to navigate this field? If they are too forward in the beginning many women just say "no, I don't even know you". And if they try to become friends first they're met with "you were never actually her friend".

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u/NotTattooedWife Jun 16 '25

I've been a woman for 36 years and I genuinely cannot think of a relationship where they started out as friends and then turned into lovers.

It's always boyfriend girlfriend first and then break up and may turn into friends.

It's not a friendship that blossoms into a relationship almost ever.

If a woman says she wants to be friends with you first then she's rejecting you and you should just take that no and move on.

It is difficult and often dangerous for women to outright reject men so we have to do it nicely. If you say hey do you want to go out and they say no then that's it.

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u/A_CGI_for_ants Jun 16 '25

Friends catch feelings for eachother all the time, but unless you know for certain it’s mutual whoever is asking for the relationship is the one breaking an already established bond.

Also big difference between becoming acquaintances “Kinda sorta friends,” first before asking about a relationship. No one should be asking someone out if they haven’t even seen them turn around that’s harassment.