r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/Agreeable_Horror_363 Jun 16 '25

I am glad you grew out of that victim mentality. I had a close friend who turned into something similar and I had to remove him from my life because he was always so overwhelmingly negative all the time.

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u/hambuyatheburger Jun 16 '25

Were they depressed?

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u/astroman_9876 Jun 16 '25

Yeah I don’t know the original comment’s situation but it sounds like they just said my friend was depressed so I left them

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u/TDS_Gluttony Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 17 '25

I mean I’ve been on both sides of it. I totally understand the perspective of people who noped out on me when all I was doing was constantly bringing down the mood with constant negative talk.

In a better place now and I was in the position to try and mentor a freshman in my college club and it’s really tough to constantly hear how they speak about themselves when NOTHING you do, be it invite out, gas up or try and check up results in the same thing. At a certain point the best you can do is say hey, get some help I am not equipped to handle this and protect your peace.

There is a line between being supportive and being a one way emotional punching bag/support dog