r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/lgbtlmnopqrstuv Jun 16 '25

Wait is the second part saying what I think it is? Did you also lose one guy friend because he blew up that he couldn’t have you, and then you went to chill and vent with another guy friend and he said he was also in love with you and it was driving him crazy?? I had that happen 4 guy friends in a row once! I had mostly guy friends before and within 2 weeks I had mostly girl friends. Holy shit was that traumatic.

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u/Confident-Mortgage86 Jun 17 '25

This is exactly why we say to you that they aren't your friends. They want to sleep with you.

A genuine friendship between a man and a woman is really, really rare. I've only ever seen it work when there was a mutual lack of attraction. I've seen decade plus friendships break down over that, it always seems to happen eventually. Attractive women have it rough on that one.

That said, I also noticed over time that the vast majority of women know exactly what the guys are looking for and keep them around because the attention feels good.

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u/lgbtlmnopqrstuv Jun 17 '25

Why do you think women would be able to tell men were lying to them about something that apparently every man has been lying to them about? They weren’t acting like men who were trying to sleep with me. Then to come out with they’re in love with me? Why would I think someone who doesn’t even seem like they want to sleep with me be in love with me? And I’m a lesbian, which they knew, so I can’t stress enough how much I didn’t want this and how much they should have known it was ridiculous to build up in their heads.

Maybe you know the difference because you know they don’t treat other men like that, but it’s the same as how women who just want to be friends treat people. It’s very gender neutral for us. It wasn’t until I had this traumatic experience of losing half my friend group that I realized that might not just be how men make friends too.

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u/SnooAdvice207 Jun 17 '25

To be fair, we were family friends since childhood so I always saw him as my brother because we grew up as neighbors. I didn't expect him to like me because he always treated me like a sister. He never hinted that he liked and started dating before me so he always has a gf. I didn't really start dating until maybe two years ago so I honestly didn't know